Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 1092 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is Their Friendship Okay? 1/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Ensure My Safety? 1/21/2016 Q&A What Will Relapse Prevention Look Like For Us? 1/12/2016 Q&A Will the AP Lie? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Are Some Signs of Safety? 1/05/2016 Q&A Can You Give Us Some Hope? 1/05/2016 Q&A He Failed the Polygraph. Now What? 1/05/2016 Q&A Should I Disclose My Affair to My Father? 1/05/2016 Q&A Can You Have Reconciliation Without Forgiveness? 12/23/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015 Q&A Is There Hope for Someone With a Lifelong Trail of Adultery? 12/23/2015 Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015 Q&A How Much Work is Necessary? 12/22/2015 Q&A Should I Ask My Husband to Email His Affair Partner to Defend Me? 12/22/2015 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing? 12/22/2015 Q&A Can There be Safety Without Recovery Work? 12/22/2015 Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade? 12/15/2015 Q&A Do I Have a Right to Contact the AP's Spouse? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Can We Handle This Particular Work Challenge? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Do I Handle the AP in This Difficult Situation? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Can We Communicate When He Isn't Getting It? 12/08/2015 Q&A Why Can't We Talk About It? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Can it Be Safe With Someone so Selfish? 12/08/2015 Q&A Do I Have All the Information Needed? 12/08/2015 Q&A Is It Ever Okay To Express Anger? 12/01/2015 Q&A How Do We Handle His Working With the AP? 12/01/2015 Q&A Is This a Sign of Healthy Mistrust? 11/17/2015 Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Do You Mean When You Have Us Say... ? 11/10/2015 Q&A How Do We Keep Our Children Safe If We Run Into My Wife's Affair Partner While At a School Function? 11/04/2015 Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery? 10/20/2015 Q&A What Consequences Should Follow Broken Boundaries? 10/20/2015 Q&A What Do I Do With the Pain? 10/06/2015 Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment? 10/06/2015 Q&A How do I Transform my Pain? 9/22/2015 Q&A Who Can I Talk to? 9/22/2015 Q&A What About Emotional and Verbal Abuse in Recovery? 9/22/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Recover if your Spouse is Still Deceitful? 9/17/2015 Q&A What Boundaries should I Set Before my Mate Comes Home? 9/17/2015 Q&A Are these Ground Rules Sufficient to be Safe from the Affair Partner? 8/27/2015 Q&A Can I Tell the Affair Partner she's Not Loved? 8/25/2015 Q&A Is there any Hope for our Marriage? 8/18/2015 Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating? 8/18/2015 Q&A How can I Love her After what She's Done? 8/18/2015 Q&A Should we let the AP's Know that it's Over? 8/18/2015 Q&A At what Point do I Move on? 8/11/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122next ›last »
