Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Problem with Forgiveness Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 1081 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Much Work is Necessary? 12/22/2015 Q&A Should I Ask My Husband to Email His Affair Partner to Defend Me? 12/22/2015 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing? 12/22/2015 Q&A Can There be Safety Without Recovery Work? 12/22/2015 Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade? 12/15/2015 Q&A Do I Have a Right to Contact the AP's Spouse? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Can We Handle This Particular Work Challenge? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Do I Handle the AP in This Difficult Situation? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Can We Communicate When He Isn't Getting It? 12/08/2015 Q&A Why Can't We Talk About It? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Can it Be Safe With Someone so Selfish? 12/08/2015 Q&A Do I Have All the Information Needed? 12/08/2015 Q&A Is It Ever Okay To Express Anger? 12/01/2015 Q&A How Do We Handle His Working With the AP? 12/01/2015 Q&A Is This a Sign of Healthy Mistrust? 11/17/2015 Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Do You Mean When You Have Us Say... ? 11/10/2015 Q&A How Do We Keep Our Children Safe If We Run Into My Wife's Affair Partner While At a School Function? 11/04/2015 Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery? 10/20/2015 Q&A What Consequences Should Follow Broken Boundaries? 10/20/2015 Q&A What Do I Do With the Pain? 10/06/2015 Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment? 10/06/2015 Q&A How do I Transform my Pain? 9/22/2015 Q&A Who Can I Talk to? 9/22/2015 Q&A What About Emotional and Verbal Abuse in Recovery? 9/22/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Recover if your Spouse is Still Deceitful? 9/17/2015 Q&A What Boundaries should I Set Before my Mate Comes Home? 9/17/2015 Q&A Are these Ground Rules Sufficient to be Safe from the Affair Partner? 8/27/2015 Q&A Can I Tell the Affair Partner she's Not Loved? 8/25/2015 Q&A Is there any Hope for our Marriage? 8/18/2015 Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating? 8/18/2015 Q&A How can I Love her After what She's Done? 8/18/2015 Q&A Should we let the AP's Know that it's Over? 8/18/2015 Q&A At what Point do I Move on? 8/11/2015 Q&A What is he Addicted to? 8/11/2015 Q&A How do I Respond to Continual Lies? 8/11/2015 Q&A Will he Ever Get Over her? 8/04/2015 Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015 Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair? 8/04/2015 Q&A What Next? 7/31/2015 Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery? 7/31/2015 Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone? 7/31/2015 Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like? 7/28/2015 Q&A How do we Cope with the Ashley Madison Blackmail News? 7/28/2015 Q&A Any Thoughts for a Hopeless Situation? 7/20/2015 Q&A How Likely is my Mate to Cheat Again? 7/07/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122next ›last »
