Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? 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Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 3938 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How do I Function Normally in the World when I'm Actually a Sex Addict? 1/11/2017 Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him? 1/11/2017 Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying? 1/11/2017 Q&A How Can I Keep Getting Back Up? 1/11/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Use History to Confront Current Behaviors? 1/11/2017 Q&A After his Affair, he Changed and now does Everything Right. Why do I Feel so Empty? 1/11/2017 Q&A Why Did I Have an Affair? Was I My True Self During My Affair? 1/11/2017 Q&A If I Don't Believe I Have the Truth about the Affair, is there any Hope? 1/11/2017 Q&A Can my Christian Witness be Valid Without Conveying Forgiveness? 12/20/2016 Q&A When is the Best Time to Bring up Hurt Feelings? 12/20/2016 Q&A Is Forgiveness my Issue? 12/20/2016 Q&A How Can I Prepare for the Holidays and Anniversary After My Wife has Left the Marriage? 12/20/2016 Q&A Why is his Anger Growing and How Can I Help? 12/20/2016 Q&A How do I Get my Spouse to Understand my Need for Full Disclosure? The Affair is Ongoing. 12/20/2016 Q&A Why is she Acting this Way? Should we Work on the Marital Issues Instead of the Infidelity? 12/20/2016 Q&A Why would he Cause me and His Affair Partner to be so Close Together? 12/20/2016 Q&A When do I Say I'm Moving On? 12/20/2016 Q&A What Type of Affair is This? 12/20/2016 Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. Will it Get Better? 12/16/2016 Q&A There was Infidelity Prior to Marriage. How do we Best Prepare for Marriage? 12/16/2016 Q&A Are these Requests Appropriate for me to Ask for? 12/16/2016 Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2016 Q&A How do I Handle my Wife's Lack of Empathy? 12/16/2016 Q&A Will it Take 10 Years to Heal? 12/16/2016 Q&A How can my Wife and I Handle my Lingering Feelings for my Affair Partner? 12/16/2016 Q&A Did we Miss the Point of the 20 Cost Exercise? 12/16/2016 Q&A Based on our Situation, Would it be Best to Separate? 12/16/2016 Q&A Should we Divorce or is there Still a Chance of a Happy Ending After this Nightmare? 12/16/2016 Q&A Should I be Farther Along in Recovery? 12/16/2016 Q&A He Contacted the Affair Partner and Lied About it. What do I do? 12/07/2016 Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances? 12/07/2016 Q&A Can You Address My Fears of What EMS Weekend Will Force me to do? 12/07/2016 Q&A How can we Heal if we don't Talk? 12/07/2016 Q&A Is this as Good as it Gets in Our Recovery? 12/07/2016 Q&A Can we Fully Recover from Her Affair Without Moving Our Family? 11/30/2016 Q&A Will there be a New Course Offered to Help Us Find that Next Level in Marriage? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do we Overcome these Barriers to Intimacy? 11/30/2016 Q&A How can I Get Over What Bill W. Founder of AA, did to His Wife? 11/30/2016 Q&A Can you Give me a Vision for a Healed Marriage I Can Work Towards? 11/30/2016 Q&A In this Scenario, Should we Inform Our Adult Children of His Affairs? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do you Enforce Boundaries Short of Separation or Divorce? 11/30/2016 Q&A What are the Signs to Watch for to Know a Liar has Stopped Lying? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should 12 Step Work be a Requirement for a Sex Addict Wanting to Salvage the Marriage? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for Me Being Married to a Sex Addict? 11/30/2016 Q&A Is it Time for Me to Give Up if She Doesn't Commit to Recovery? 11/30/2016 Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse? 11/30/2016 Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Feel Lonely While My Spouse Grieves the Loss of His Affair Partner? 11/30/2016 Q&A Can You Explain to me the Psychology Behind this Behavior? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Can You make of All This? 11/30/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…585960616263646566…next ›last »
