All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 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Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 5017 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Does Forgiveness Look like after Multiple Relapses? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Unfaithful Mate through the Recovery Process? 6/07/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Want to Leave When My Spouse Is Doing the Right Work? 6/07/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can Someone with Self-Awareness and Boundaries Still Relapse? 6/06/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can a Wife Ever Get over Her Husband Having Sex with the Affair Partner in Their Home? 6/06/2018 Q&A Is Acknowledging and Working on the Unconscious Brain Important? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Clean up the Financial Mess His Affair Has Created? 6/06/2018 Q&A Why Does His Shame Trump My Pain? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Manage the Feeling That I Will Never Be Enough? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Can I Protect My Children from Pornography? 6/06/2018 Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband? 5/23/2018 Q&A Should We Get a New Counselor? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mates Lack of Empathy? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Can My Honor Be Restored at My Unfaithful Spouse's Workplace? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is Calling This a ‘Mistake’ Minimization? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Relapsing? 5/23/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I'm Not so Jaded? 5/23/2018 Q&A Was His Desire for This Type of Porn Changing His Brain? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Convey Grief about My Betrayal Rather than Shame? 5/23/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles - Part 2 5/22/2018 Q&A Why Did My Mate Continue to Repeat the Same Patterns with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2018 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment? 5/18/2018 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment? 5/18/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Stop Flooding? 5/18/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair? 5/18/2018 Q&A Do You Think We Can Ever Truly Move Forward without Him Seeking Any Help? 5/18/2018 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/18/2018 Q&A Is There Hope? 5/18/2018 Q&A Do Most Affairs End Badly? 5/18/2018 Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth? 5/18/2018 Q&A How Can I Minimize Thoughts of the Affair Partner? 5/16/2018 Q&A Can Men Have Control over Masturbation? 5/16/2018 Q&A What Is Your Opinion on Patrick Doyle's Material? 5/16/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mates Recovery Isn't Consistent? 5/16/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain Why What My Husband Is Doing Isn't Working? 5/16/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mother-In-Law? 5/16/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles 5/16/2018 Q&A Should I Put My Running Shoes on and Get out Now? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Do I Communicate That If He Doesn't Get Help That It's Over? 5/09/2018 Q&A How to I Get past My Irritation Towards My Mate? 5/09/2018 Q&A Is This a Sign of My Husband's Lack of Commitment? 5/09/2018 Q&A Will My Formerly Wayward Spouse Ever Feel Special to Me Again? 5/09/2018 Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Apologize to the Affair Partner or Is There Another Way? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Do I Do While Waiting for My Spouse to Be Safe? 5/09/2018 Q&A Is His Betrayal Too Much to Overcome, or Is There Really Hope? 5/09/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…464748495051525354…next ›last »