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Video Q&A How Can She Be So Kind Now after the Way She Treated Me Just a Year Ago? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Hear His Heart? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A What Do I Do with This Anger and Loss of Trust We Had Worked Hard to Gain? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A Should We Discuss My Faults in the Marriage Now or Wait until He Takes Responsibility for His Infidelities? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A Is It Me or My Trauma That's Holding Us Back? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Feel I'm in an Ideal Marriage If I Can't Expect Sex to Be Ideal? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Can Our Sexual Relationship Heal or Should I Change My Expectations? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A What Should I Do Now That I'm Finished with EMS Online? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Is an EMS Course an Option with the Affair Partner Still in the Picture? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Why Do You Say Oral Sex Is 'Always about Sex'? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Should I Be Worried That She's Not Sharing Her Intrusive Thoughts with Me? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Is Our Church Safe? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Is He Relapsing? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Should We Change Churches? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017
Video Q&A When Is It Safe to End a Separation and Come Back Together? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A When Will I Stop Being Angry and Start Grieving? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can We Figure out What the Affair Was About? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Be Assertive without Being Aggressive about His Recovery? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Why Was He a Different Person in His Affairs? Why Can't He Be More Like That with Me? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Withdraw My Commitment for Complete Honesty? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Should I Be Worried That He Hasn't Completed His 4th Step in 18 Months of Recovery? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A What Is Shaming? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A What Are Possibilities If My Spouse Isn't Comfortable with Group Work? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Is There Hope for This to Get Better? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A Is This Normal Limerence or Is He a Love Addict? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A Should I Be Worried about a Person from My Mates Past? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A How Common are Affairs? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A When Does Anger Become Emotional Abuse? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A Is It Important for the Betrayed Spouse to Get the Details? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A Am I Being Passive Agressive? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A Should Communication with Counselors Be Enough for Me to Feel Supported? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A How Will My Spouse See That I Never Loved My Affair Partner? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A What does He Need to Do to Get It? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Can this Be Turned Around? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Will the doubting stop? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Is my loneliness an excuse to hold onto our marriage? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Can you provide examples of larger lives developing after recovery from betrayal? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017

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