All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 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The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can She Be So Kind Now after the Way She Treated Me Just a Year Ago? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Hear His Heart? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with This Anger and Loss of Trust We Had Worked Hard to Gain? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum? 5/03/2017 Q&A Should We Discuss My Faults in the Marriage Now or Wait until He Takes Responsibility for His Infidelities? 5/03/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Me or My Trauma That's Holding Us Back? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Feel I'm in an Ideal Marriage If I Can't Expect Sex to Be Ideal? 4/25/2017 Q&A Can Our Sexual Relationship Heal or Should I Change My Expectations? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Should I Do Now That I'm Finished with EMS Online? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is an EMS Course an Option with the Affair Partner Still in the Picture? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much? 4/25/2017 Q&A Why Do You Say Oral Sex Is 'Always about Sex'? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried That She's Not Sharing Her Intrusive Thoughts with Me? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is Our Church Safe? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is He Relapsing? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should We Change Churches? 4/25/2017 Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017 Q&A When Is It Safe to End a Separation and Come Back Together? 4/25/2017 Q&A When Will I Stop Being Angry and Start Grieving? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can We Figure out What the Affair Was About? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Assertive without Being Aggressive about His Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together? 4/25/2017 Q&A Why Was He a Different Person in His Affairs? Why Can't He Be More Like That with Me? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Withdraw My Commitment for Complete Honesty? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried That He Hasn't Completed His 4th Step in 18 Months of Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Is Shaming? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Are Possibilities If My Spouse Isn't Comfortable with Group Work? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for This to Get Better? 4/12/2017 Q&A Is This Normal Limerence or Is He a Love Addict? 4/12/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried about a Person from My Mates Past? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Common are Affairs? 4/12/2017 Q&A When Does Anger Become Emotional Abuse? 4/12/2017 Q&A Is It Important for the Betrayed Spouse to Get the Details? 4/12/2017 Q&A Am I Being Passive Agressive? 4/12/2017 Q&A Should Communication with Counselors Be Enough for Me to Feel Supported? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Will My Spouse See That I Never Loved My Affair Partner? 4/12/2017 Q&A What does He Need to Do to Get It? 4/05/2017 Q&A Can this Be Turned Around? 4/05/2017 Q&A Will the doubting stop? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is my loneliness an excuse to hold onto our marriage? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017 Q&A Can you provide examples of larger lives developing after recovery from betrayal? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…585960616263646566…next ›last »