For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 1206 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Re-establish a Sexual Relationship? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Long Does It Take the Unfaithful to Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do I Do When There Are No Actions behind the Words? 1/22/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Should I Do?” 1/22/2018 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When You Spouse Refuses Help and Wants Divorce? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again? 1/10/2018 Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Forgive Myself for Transmitting My Pain? 1/08/2018 Q&A What's the Normal Length of Time People Refrain from Sex after Discovering Infidelity? 12/06/2017 Q&A When Is Enough, Enough? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do You Get That Special Place Back Again? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Connected to Me? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do People Truly Move beyond This Pain? 11/28/2017 Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 11/28/2017 Q&A What Will It Take for My Mate to Face Reality? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again? 11/28/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain? 11/22/2017 Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner? 11/22/2017 Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage? 11/22/2017 Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better? 11/15/2017 Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward? 11/10/2017 Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger? 11/10/2017 Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'? 11/10/2017 Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict? 11/10/2017 Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss? 11/01/2017 Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017 Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret? 11/01/2017 Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits? 11/01/2017 Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened? 10/25/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…151617181920212223…next ›last »