For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1)
Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids?
How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons
Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision
1272 Resources
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Video Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict? 11/10/2017
Video Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Understand the Mind of the Unfaithful? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Grateful I Haven't Left Yet? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Much Initiation Should the Unfaithful Spouse Be Responsible for in the Healing Process? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A What Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Overcome the Fear I Have with His Sexual Performance? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Am I in a Phase? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Be Sure the Type of Sex He Had with His AP Is Not His New Preference? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Was His Behavior Typical of Someone in an Affair? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Be Sure That the Feelings Are Gone? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Why Can't I Fully Commit to My Wife? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A What Causes Someone to Cheat? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Should I Prepare to Leave or Take Control of Our Healing? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Reflect on How He Got Here? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Convey the Importance of Remorse and Grief from My Mate? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Feel Not Just Safe, but Free Again? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Daily Triggers? 10/10/2017
Video Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Nothing for My Spouse? 10/10/2017
Video Q&A Why Won't My Mate Fully Commit to Me? 10/09/2017
Video Q&A Was the Affair a Result of Childhood Abuse? 10/09/2017
Video Q&A Why Is My Unfaithful Mate So Selfish? 10/09/2017
Video Q&A Should I Ask about the Physical Parts of the Affair? 10/09/2017
Video Q&A When Will My Mate Feel Safe Again? 10/09/2017
Video Q&A Does Childhood Abuse Predispose People to Infidelity? 10/09/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Separation during EMS Online? 10/09/2017

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