For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Power of Small Groups Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 1272 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict? 11/10/2017 Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss? 11/01/2017 Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017 Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret? 11/01/2017 Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits? 11/01/2017 Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend? 10/25/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Understand the Mind of the Unfaithful? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Grateful I Haven't Left Yet? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Much Initiation Should the Unfaithful Spouse Be Responsible for in the Healing Process? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Fear I Have with His Sexual Performance? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact? 10/25/2017 Q&A Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Am I in a Phase? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Sure the Type of Sex He Had with His AP Is Not His New Preference? 10/25/2017 Q&A Was His Behavior Typical of Someone in an Affair? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Sure That the Feelings Are Gone? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Fully Commit to My Wife? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Causes Someone to Cheat? 10/25/2017 Q&A Should I Prepare to Leave or Take Control of Our Healing? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Reflect on How He Got Here? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Convey the Importance of Remorse and Grief from My Mate? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Feel Not Just Safe, but Free Again? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Daily Triggers? 10/10/2017 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Nothing for My Spouse? 10/10/2017 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Fully Commit to Me? 10/09/2017 Q&A Was the Affair a Result of Childhood Abuse? 10/09/2017 Q&A Why Is My Unfaithful Mate So Selfish? 10/09/2017 Q&A Should I Ask about the Physical Parts of the Affair? 10/09/2017 Q&A When Will My Mate Feel Safe Again? 10/09/2017 Q&A Does Childhood Abuse Predispose People to Infidelity? 10/09/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Separation during EMS Online? 10/09/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…171819202122232425next ›last »