For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? 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Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness 1206 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Am I Crazy to Even Think There Is a Chance for Us? 8/13/2020 Q&A Is He Telling the Truth or Gaslighting Me? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When the Spouse of My Husband's Affair Partner Attempts to Contact Me? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships? 8/13/2020 Q&A Should I Just Ask Him to Move Out and Focus on Myself? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Do Handle How My Wife Is Acting? 8/13/2020 Q&A Why Do We Sometimes Ask the Same Questions Repeatedly? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Could Childhood Sexual Abuse Lead My Husband to Have an Affair? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Is It I Should Do to Heal? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can He Be So Delusional and Casual about This Life Altering Situation? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can I Make Him Understand That Porn Is Also Infidelity? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Do I Approach Our Vacation Sleeping Plan? 8/13/2020 Q&A Was Her Behavior Justified? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Should My Next Move Be? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can I Heal When I Still Feel I Don't Have Full Disclosure and May Never Get It? 8/13/2020 Hope Rising 2020 Announcement 8/11/2020 Q&A Is My Husband Minimizing His Highly Sexual Affair? 8/07/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband's Recovery? 8/07/2020 Q&A Is He Still Intentionally Lying to Me and Not Telling Me Everything? 8/07/2020 Q&A Do Wayward Spouses Sometimes Use Marriage Deficits to Justify an Affair and Ending a Marriage? 8/06/2020 Q&A Is It Important for Me to Actually Tell Him That I Have Forgiven Him? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Do I Cope, Accept, and Reconcile with the Reckless Choice My Husband Made? 8/06/2020 Q&A Is He Really Healing If He’s Thinking of the Affair Partner as a Friend? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Moving Forward with the Affair Partner? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Could Things Have Been So Bad and I Be So Oblivious to the Point I Thought Everything Was Good? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Can We Move Forward When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 7/30/2020 Q&A Is This Normal or Is There Something Wrong with Me? 7/30/2020 Q&A How Do I Regain Respect and Admiration for My Husband? 7/28/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Heal and Overcome Triggers If the Affair Partner Continues to Flirt with My Husband? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is There Any Hope for a Wayward Spouse, Who Pretends He Has Stopped Communication with the Affair Partner, but Refuses to Be Accountable and Continues to Gaslight? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Be Happier Than They Were before the Affair? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Happens If My Spouse Won't Acknowledge the Relationship as an Affair? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Unstuck? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Rid of the Compulsion to Contact My Wayward Spouse? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Expect Him to Work His Way Back to My Heart? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is the Relationship Worth Salvaging? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Wanting and Getting Comfort From My Spouse Who Is the One That Caused So Much Pain? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Heal and Move Forward in My Marriage Without Knowing Why He Made Those Choices? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does? 7/09/2020 Q&A At What Point Does a Serious Case of Narcissism in the Unfaithful Need to Be Considered Unsafe for the Betrayed Spouse to Even Consider Reconciliation? 7/09/2020 Q&A Should I Be Expected to Provide Affair-Partner-Level Intensity? 7/09/2020 Q&A Can Someone Who Has Been a Con Ever Be Trusted? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable in My Demand? 7/09/2020 Q&A Will He Always Have Feelings for the Affair Partner? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Get Him to Understand? 7/09/2020 Q&A When Will the Urge to Snoop End? 7/02/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…67891011121314…next ›last »