For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 1283 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Should the Betrayed Respond When the Wayward Spouse Lashes Out? 11/12/2020 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020 Q&A How Can He Do All of This Good Recovery Work and Still Lie? 10/29/2020 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Ask the Wayward Spouse to Take a Polygraph? 10/29/2020 Q&A How Does He Change His Behavior If He Can Not See Himself Doing It? 10/29/2020 Q&A Am I Being Too Hard or Unreasonable? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Would Be a Good Plan for Me Going Forward? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is This Approach Sufficient for Healing Our Marriage after His 7-Year Affair? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for an Addiction of This Severity to Change So Quickly? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can I Respect My Husband after What He Has Done to Me and Our Family after Multiple Lies, Betrayal, and Affairs? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is There Anything Else I Should Be Doing? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is a Trauma Bond Repairable? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is It Codependent to Stay in a Marriage for the Happiness of Your Children? 10/22/2020 Q&A Can I Get My Husband to Try? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward in This Situation When All I Feel Is Anger? 10/22/2020 Q&A Will He Ever Go Back to Being the Man I Used to Know? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is It Ever Just Too Much to Get Past? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should I Suggest to My Spouse That He Take Hope for Healing While I’m Taking Harboring Hope or Should He Be the One to Suggest Taking It? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Should I Do for My Sanity Now? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should I File for Divorce? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Recovery in Our Situation? 10/22/2020 Q&A Do You Recommend Sharing the Discovery Week of Harboring Hope with My Wayward Spouse? 10/22/2020 Q&A Was it Really Love? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Him to Get It? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses to Acknowledge That Emotional Affairs Are Valid? 10/22/2020 Q&A Do I Just Wait for Him to Decide? 10/22/2020 Q&A Have You Ever Heard of Couples Recreating Sexual Encounters between the Wayward Spouse and Affair Partner on Purpose? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal? 10/22/2020 Q&A Why Is It That My Husband Made the Affair Partners Feel Special but Finds It Hard to Make His Own Wife Feel Special? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can Do We Get past This When She Doesn’t Believe She Had a Physical Affair? 10/22/2020 Q&A Do I Stand by My Husband When He Wants Revenge on the Affair Partner? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should My Husband Contact His Affair Partner to Get an Answer Regarding Her Pregnancy Status? 10/22/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do You Call This Behavior? 10/22/2020 Q&A Would Leaving the Marriage Now That He Is Sick Seem Heartless and Cruel? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True? 10/05/2020 Q&A Is It Wrong to Avoid Contact with In-Laws since My Wayward Husband Villainized Me to Them? 9/24/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward and Continue with Recovery? 9/24/2020 Q&A Does Anyone Know the Name of What My Spouse Does to Keep from Answering a Question with the Truth? 9/22/2020 Q&A Is Soliciting Prostitutes Always Due to an Addiction? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Turn off Rumination without Getting Validation from My Husband? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do You Handle Ambivalence without Being Co-Dependent? 9/22/2020 Q&A Is There a Way to Determine the Difference between an Affair Being Motivated by Revenge as Opposed to the Wayward Spouse Justifying an Affair or Are They One in the Same? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Begin to Deal with This Being True? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Get over the Constant Reminder and Trigger? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Find a Happy Medium Where I Can Learn to Be Myself Again, While Still Connecting with Him and Learning to Trust Him Again? 9/22/2020 Q&A Is It Common to Loose Feelings for Your Wayward Spouse? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet? 9/22/2020 Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband as ‘Mine’ Again? 9/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Get to the Truth? 9/02/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…67891011121314…next ›last »
