Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? 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Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 3921 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing? 6/27/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Mate to Come out of Limerence? 6/27/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery? 6/27/2018 Q&A Should How Do You Restore a Loveless Marriage after an Affair? 6/27/2018 Q&A Should I Consider Separation? 6/27/2018 Q&A I'm Beginning to Lose Hope, Should I Stay or Should I Go? 6/27/2018 Q&A Do You Really Believe God Created Marriage to Make Us Miserable? 6/27/2018 Q&A Should We Separate for a While? 6/15/2018 Q&A Can You Give Us Guidance on Reaching Full Disclosure? 6/15/2018 Q&A Will the Respect I Had for My Spouse Come Back over Time? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Can We Protect Our Safety Protocol While Traveling? 6/15/2018 Q&A Do I Need to Get a Divorce? 6/15/2018 Q&A Are There Boundaries That Need to Be Followed as an Accountability Partner? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage? 6/08/2018 Q&A Do You Have Additional Resources for Overcoming Gaslighting? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Is the Difference between the ‘Right Person’ and the ‘Right Fit’? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Should Our Next Step Be? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A Why Does My Husband Act like I’m the One with the Problem? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse? 6/07/2018 Q&A What's the Difference between Feeling Remorse for Causing Me Pain and Having Remorse for Being with the Other Person? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Does Forgiveness Look like after Multiple Relapses? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Unfaithful Mate through the Recovery Process? 6/07/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Want to Leave When My Spouse Is Doing the Right Work? 6/07/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can Someone with Self-Awareness and Boundaries Still Relapse? 6/06/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can a Wife Ever Get over Her Husband Having Sex with the Affair Partner in Their Home? 6/06/2018 Q&A Is Acknowledging and Working on the Unconscious Brain Important? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Clean up the Financial Mess His Affair Has Created? 6/06/2018 Q&A Why Does His Shame Trump My Pain? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Manage the Feeling That I Will Never Be Enough? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Can I Protect My Children from Pornography? 6/06/2018 Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband? 5/23/2018 Q&A Should We Get a New Counselor? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mates Lack of Empathy? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Can My Honor Be Restored at My Unfaithful Spouse's Workplace? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is Calling This a ‘Mistake’ Minimization? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Relapsing? 5/23/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I'm Not so Jaded? 5/23/2018 Q&A Was His Desire for This Type of Porn Changing His Brain? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Convey Grief about My Betrayal Rather than Shame? 5/23/2018 Q&A Why Did My Mate Continue to Repeat the Same Patterns with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2018 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment? 5/18/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…404142434445464748…next ›last »