Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Could You? 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Is This Real? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Much Recovery is Needed Before Energy is Put Towards 'Us'? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it My Mate or the Affair Partner Lying? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Settle These Questions in My Mind? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it Fantasy or Love? 8/09/2016 Q&A Where is the True Empathy? 8/09/2016 Q&A What Can I Do About My Thoughts Toward Others? 8/09/2016 Q&A Is it Too Much to Ask for More Sex? 8/09/2016 Q&A How Do I Get Him to Give me Full Disclosure? 8/09/2016 Q&A What Should I Do if My Mate Isn't Taking Responsibility? 8/09/2016 Q&A What are the Differences Between Healing From Long and Short Term Affairs 8/03/2016 Q&A Does My Spouse Need Intensive Therapy? 8/03/2016 Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for My Unfaithful Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Can Marriages Survive Mismatched Personalities and Sexual Differences? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is it Too Risky to Work With a Former Limerant Affair Partner? 8/03/2016 Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations for Knowing the 'Why'? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving? 8/03/2016 Q&A If the Infidelity Continues, is it Time for Divorce? 8/03/2016 Q&A With this Level of Drip Feeding Truth, Will I Regain Feelings for My Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Should I Hear My Mate's Feelings for the Affair Partner 8/03/2016 Q&A When Will the Loving Feelings Return? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is Cheating Only Possible When He's Drunk? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Do I Respond to the Continual Relapse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is My Ambivalent Spouse Thinking About Me While Separated? 8/03/2016 Q&A The Affair Partner Moved Nearby, How Do I Escape My Bondage? 8/03/2016 Q&A Should I Disclose the Additional Affair Details I Discovered? 8/03/2016 Q&A Does He Want Me or Are the Words Empty? 8/03/2016 Q&A Can He Really Not Remember What Happened? 8/03/2016 Q&A Any Considerations for Me to Determine Safety in the Relationship? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Do I Live in Limbo With an Ambivalent Unfaithful Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A What Do I Do While My Spouse Disconnects From the Affair Partner? 8/03/2016 Q&A What Will Help My Unfaithful Spouse 'Get it'? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Can I Trust that My Sex Addicted Mate is Keeping His Mind Clear? 8/03/2016 Q&A What's the Harm in Separating During EMS Online? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Resist Divorce? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Do I Handle the Affair Partner Being a Family Member? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Connect With Others Like Me? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Do I Respond to My Mate Not Making Me Feel Safe After an Affair? 7/26/2016 Q&A Am I Grieving? 7/26/2016 Q&A If the Affair Partner Attempts to Maintain a Relationship With my Mate, Should I Inform Their Spouse? 7/26/2016 Q&A While in an Affair, Does it Contribute to Marital Issues? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Did the Conversations Transition? 7/26/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…626364656667686970…next ›last »