Recovery Fundamentals Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 1276 Resources Type Title Posted Mickey and Stephanie's Mentor Video 7/06/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Us in Our Communication? 7/06/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Should Our Next Step Be? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Unfaithful Mate through the Recovery Process? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Convey Grief about My Betrayal Rather than Shame? 5/23/2018 Q&A Do You Think We Can Ever Truly Move Forward without Him Seeking Any Help? 5/18/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mates Recovery Isn't Consistent? 5/16/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain Why What My Husband Is Doing Isn't Working? 5/16/2018 Q&A Will EMS Online Be Effective for Us If My Mate Doesn't View Online Interactions as 'Real'? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Common Is It for the Unfaithful Wife to Shut Down? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Long Can This Process Take and What, If Anything, Should I Be Doing Differently? 5/07/2018 Q&A Is Recovery Delayed Because We Are Also Best Friends? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do You Get over Forbidden Love? 5/02/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope When I Feel Inferior to the Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Q&A How Can I Use Harboring Hope to Recover from Infidelity in Two Marriages? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Move Forward When Everything Seems Tainted? 4/05/2018 Q&A Is It True That Sometimes "Rock Bottom" Is the Best Foundation from Which to Build On? 3/28/2018 Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Handling the Transgressions That Occur before D-Day and After? 3/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Navigate Giving My Spouse Time to Show Effort? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should We Tell Our Parents about the Infidelity? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Actions Are Necessary from the Unfaithful during Recovery? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should We Combine the EMS Program with Other Things? (e.g. Couples Therapy or Married for Life) 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do People Heal from Betrayal? 3/12/2018 Q&A What Questions Can I Ask That Won't Lead to Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Q&A Will My Mate Forever Grieve Losing the Affair Partner? 3/05/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Change My Perspective of My Mate? 3/05/2018 Q&A How Do We Show Commitment without Making False Vows or Promises? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Can Family and Friends Support Us during Recovery? 2/28/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A What Steps Should I Take for Personal Healing? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do We Address the Affair without It Being so Negative? 2/14/2018 Q&A How to We Navigate Recovery with a History of Abuse? 2/14/2018 Q&A What’s the Best Way to Process with My Mate? 2/14/2018 Q&A Should You Have a Therapist of the Same Sex? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A Can Hope Keep You Stuck in a Toxic Relationship? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal without a Shared History? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Does My Mate Turn Their Life Around? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Support My Mates Grieving Process? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do We Start over without Reviewing the Past? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Reclaim the Losses from the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do Addictions Play into That Sequence of Recovery? 1/22/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…111213141516171819…next ›last »