Recovery Fundamentals Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough. Must Reads more less Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 1253 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Tell the AP's Spouse? 2/10/2015 Q&A How can we Agree on Financial Safety? 2/10/2015 Q&A When is Physical Intimacy Ok? 2/10/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Lying to my Spouse and Myself? 1/29/2015 Q&A Can We Reclaim our Territory? 1/29/2015 Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Spouse do all the Hard Work? 1/29/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do we Get to Ground Zero and end this Cycle? 1/23/2015 Q&A (HFH) Am I a Sex Addict? 1/20/2015 Q&A Do We Need Marriage as a Foundation? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself? 1/06/2015 Q&A How can he Love me and Love her? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal? 12/19/2014 Q&A Can I Recover Without Details? 12/15/2014 Q&A Is it Common for Unfaithful to Confess Affair but Continue Lying? 12/11/2014 Q&A If my Husband Affaired down, did his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What? 12/10/2014 Q&A Which Course Should my Spouse Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A When is it Healthy to Stop Talking About the Affair? 12/10/2014 Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets" 12/10/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014 Q&A Should I Share my Temptations and/or Failings with my Spouse? 12/01/2014 Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014 Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation? 11/20/2014 Q&A When do You Stop Talking About the Affair? 11/17/2014 Q&A Should I Apologize to my Spouse's Family for my Affair? 11/14/2014 Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner? 11/14/2014 Q&A Consumed With Finding Information 11/12/2014 Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner? 11/12/2014 Q&A Spouse Avoiding Issue and Anger Management 11/12/2014 Q&A Addiction, Meetings, & Lack of Commitment 11/05/2014 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest 11/04/2014 Q&A Addiction and Limerance 11/04/2014 Q&A Emotional Affair and Limerance 11/04/2014 Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner 11/04/2014 Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 I Want My Life Back 9/18/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Grief-Transforming Loss 8/01/2013 The Trap 7/10/2013 Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526next ›last »