Recovery Fundamentals Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough. Must Reads more less How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Power of Small Groups Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 1243 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself? 1/06/2015 Q&A How can he Love me and Love her? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal? 12/19/2014 Q&A Can I Recover Without Details? 12/15/2014 Q&A Is it Common for Unfaithful to Confess Affair but Continue Lying? 12/11/2014 Q&A If my Husband Affaired down, did his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What? 12/10/2014 Q&A Which Course Should my Spouse Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A When is it Healthy to Stop Talking About the Affair? 12/10/2014 Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets" 12/10/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014 Q&A Should I Share my Temptations and/or Failings with my Spouse? 12/01/2014 Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014 Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation? 11/20/2014 Q&A When do You Stop Talking About the Affair? 11/17/2014 Q&A Should I Apologize to my Spouse's Family for my Affair? 11/14/2014 Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner? 11/14/2014 Q&A Consumed With Finding Information 11/12/2014 Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner? 11/12/2014 Q&A Spouse Avoiding Issue and Anger Management 11/12/2014 Q&A Addiction, Meetings, & Lack of Commitment 11/05/2014 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest 11/04/2014 Q&A Addiction and Limerance 11/04/2014 Q&A Emotional Affair and Limerance 11/04/2014 Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner 11/04/2014 Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 I Want My Life Back 9/18/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Grief-Transforming Loss 8/01/2013 The Trap 7/10/2013 Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013 Achieving Real Change, part 4 1/01/2013 How to Change, Part Three 12/18/2012 Is Change Really Possible, Part Two 12/13/2012 Pages« first‹ previous…171819202122232425
