Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? 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Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 1075 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Many Times Should I Give Him Another Chance? 10/24/2016 Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain? 10/24/2016 Q&Aqw How can the Unfaithful's Claimed Intentions be so Drastically Different from their Actions? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Know if My Unfaithful Spouse is Truly Committed to the Marriage and Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will it Ever be Safe to Not Have Safe Sex With a Cheater? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Heal From the Affair in the Midst of Ongoing Trauma? 10/18/2016 Q&A His Affair Partner is Toxic. Why Won't He Let Her Go? 10/18/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Being Ambivalent so I can Commit Back to the Marriage? 10/12/2016 Q&A Who Would Want to be Empathetic Toward Their Spouse if They Had an Affair? 10/12/2016 Q&A How can My Unfaithful Mate Help Me When I Flood Emotionally? 10/12/2016 Q&A Can We Heal from Infidelity if My Mate Isn't Empathetic, Won't Talk About it, and Blows Up When I Bring it Up? 10/11/2016 Q&A I Stopped the Affair. Will I Cheat Again? 10/11/2016 Q&A Why Isn't She Remorseful After Her Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A After His Affair, Will I Ever Trust Him Again? 10/11/2016 Q&A If He's Been so Good at Lying, How Can I Trust His Story of the Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A How Much Should He Tell Me About His Recovery? 10/11/2016 Q&A How do I Keep From Comparing Our Sex Against the Sex He Had with His Affair Partner? 10/11/2016 Q&A If Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater, How do I Feel Safe? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is Recovery from an Affair Possible if My Mate Can't be Empathetic? 9/28/2016 Q&A What Signs do I Look for to Know that My Unfaithful Spouse is in Recovery? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Mate Wants Someone Else? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can We Safely be Sexually Intimate Again After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is This a Reasonable Stand for Me to Take with My Unfaithful Spouse? 9/28/2016 Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can a Person be Addicted to Emotional Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A Should I Stay in Touch With My Spouse While he is With the Affair Partner? 9/28/2016 Q&A After Decades of Lying, is it Possible to be Truthful? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Spouse Won't Address the Issues that Allowed the Infidelity? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Learn to Enjoy My Spouse Again After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About Seeking Justice With the Affair Partners? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Heal Without Counseling or Other Work After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Reconcile While the Affair Partner is Still in the Picture? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Do I Stay in a Cycle of Grace Vs. Performance? 9/22/2016 Q&A What if I Need to go Through All the Material I Collected from My Mate's Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A Is There Any Benefit of My Husband Writing Another Termination Letter to His Affair Partner? 9/22/2016 Q&A What Should I Do After These Continued Affairs? 9/22/2016 Q&A My Husband Insists We Move Forward Without Discussing the Affair. Is it Possible? 9/22/2016 Q&A After His Affairs, He Isn't Broken. Can We Heal? 9/22/2016 Q&A What Should I do to Help Her from Going Back to the Affair Partner? 9/22/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With Anger and Lack of Trust After the Affair Has Ended? 9/22/2016 Q&A Am I Overreacting About Occasional Pornography Use? 9/22/2016 Q&A Do We Have a Higher Risk for Relapse? 9/22/2016 Q&A How do We Handle This Challenge Regarding Safety? 9/22/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Blame Myself for Their Affair? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Can Someone Completely Ignore Their Spouse Like This? 9/14/2016 Q&A I Feel Unloved, He Feels Unappreciated, How Can We Heal? 9/14/2016 Q&A Can We Find a Way for Me to Feel Safe and My Mate Keep the Dream Job? 9/14/2016 Q&A Is God Not Opening the Right Door or is My Mate Not Walking Through? 9/14/2016 Q&A Should I Quit My Job to Help My Mate Heal After My Affair? 9/14/2016 Q&A How do I Explain to Our Kids Why Daddy Isn't Here? 9/07/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…111213141516171819…next ›last »
