Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Recovery Timeline How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) We Started Well, but... Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How do you respond to blackmail? Part II The Problem with Forgiveness Free Resources Type Title Posted How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 11/15/2017 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 11/9/2017 Why She Cheats 11/1/2017 Understanding Grief in Infidelity 10/24/2017 Do You Struggle with Forgiveness? 10/17/2017 Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 10/12/2017 Denial and Recovery 10/4/2017 The Fantasyland of an Affair 9/27/2017 Relapse Prevention & How to Recover from an Affair 9/20/2017 What Really Happens at EMS Weekend? 9/14/2017 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 9/6/2017 Meet Rodney and Angela: A Journey Through EMS Online 8/30/2017 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 8/23/2017 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 2 - Not Getting It 8/16/2017 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 8/9/2017 Were They Thinking of Me? 8/2/2017 Healing After An Affair: Emotional Flooding & Reminders 7/26/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 7/13/2017 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 7/6/2017 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 6/28/2017 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 6/21/2017 Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 6/14/2017 Am I Who They Want? 6/7/2017 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 5/31/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 5/17/2017 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/10/2017 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 5/3/2017 The Paralysis of Ambivalence: Part 2 4/25/2017 The Paralysis of Ambivalence: Part 1 4/19/2017 Ever associated forgiveness with a big price tag? 4/12/2017 Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 4/5/2017 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 3/29/2017 What are the 5 simple and proven steps that will protect your marriage? 3/22/2017 Infidelity Counseling- How Effective Is It? 3/15/2017 The Power of Small Groups 3/8/2017 Anger: Its 6 Roots 3/1/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Am I Looking at Forgiveness Wrong? 2/28/2017 Is Change Really Possible? 2/22/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Handle the Abrupt Emotional Changes? 2/15/2017 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 2/15/2017 The Valentine’s Day After Syndrome 2/8/2017 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 2/1/2017 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 1/25/2017 Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 1/18/2017 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 1/12/2017 Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving 1/4/2017 Michael & Alicia's Mentor Video 12/15/2016 Battling Intrusive Thoughts and Physical Intimacy After Infidelity 12/13/2016 previous <1234
