Free Recovery Library Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Will They Cheat Again? Facing the Fear of Relapse After Infidelity	10/26/2026
	Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall	10/19/2026
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026

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Title

Posted

Will They Cheat Again? Facing the Fear of Relapse After Infidelity

10/26/2026

Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall

10/19/2026

Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?

10/12/2026

Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis

9/28/2026

Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention

9/16/2026

New Premium Member Content

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How I Do Handle the Wayward Only Doing the Bare Minimum?	11/02/2026
	Q&A What Signs Can We Look for That the Process is Working?	11/02/2026
	Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?	10/22/2026
	Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?	10/22/2026
	Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?	10/22/2026

Type

Title

Posted

Q&A How I Do Handle the Wayward Only Doing the Bare Minimum?

11/02/2026

Q&A What Signs Can We Look for That the Process is Working?

11/02/2026

Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?

10/22/2026

Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?

10/22/2026

Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?

10/22/2026

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Engage?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is My Mate Drawn towards Something Bad and Repulsed by Something Good?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Long Will the Emotional Fog Last?	12/20/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do to Heal from the Massive Anxiety I Am Now Facing?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can My Mate Heal from Sexual Anorexia?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Do You Work on a Marriage You Might End up Leaving?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Does the Unfaithful Compare Their Mate to the Affair Partner?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do You Handle Doubt?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Address My Separation Anxiety?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Long Will the Unfaithful Stay Ambivalent?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Do You Think I Am Wise to Pursue Forgiveness?	12/06/2017
	Q&A What's the Normal Length of Time People Refrain from Sex after Discovering Infidelity?	12/06/2017
	Q&A When Is Enough, Enough?	12/06/2017
	Q&A Would a Lie Detector Test Help or Hurt?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know If I’ve Forgiven?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner?	12/06/2017
	Q&A Will I Ever Get past This?	12/06/2017
	Q&A Can You Explain How to Handle Grief?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Do You Get That Special Place Back Again?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Connected to Me?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Should Someone Disclose the Use of Pornography?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do People Truly Move beyond This Pain?	11/28/2017
	Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head?	11/28/2017
	Q&A What Will It Take for My Mate to Face Reality?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again?	11/28/2017
	Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This?	11/28/2017
	Q&A Why Does Affair Recovery Use the Negative Label ‘Unfaithful Spouse’?	11/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain?	11/22/2017
	Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed?	11/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner?	11/22/2017
	Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage?	11/22/2017
	Q&A How Can I Set Better Boundaries with My In-Laws?	11/22/2017
	Q&A What's the Difference between Limerence during an Affair and Infatuation during Dating?	11/15/2017
	Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better?	11/15/2017
	Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait before Filing for Divorce?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse?	11/15/2017
	Q&A Is It Time to Give Up?	11/15/2017
	Q&A What Resources Would You Suggest for My Situation?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward?	11/10/2017
	Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Can We Keep the Healing Momentum Going?	11/10/2017

Type

Title

Posted

Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Engage?

12/20/2017

Q&A Is My Mate Drawn towards Something Bad and Repulsed by Something Good?

12/20/2017

Q&A How Long Will the Emotional Fog Last?

12/20/2017

Q&A What Can I Do to Heal from the Massive Anxiety I Am Now Facing?

12/20/2017

Q&A How Can My Mate Heal from Sexual Anorexia?