For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1206 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Does It Seem like My Unfaithful Husband Acts like the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2018 Q&A Am I Crazy for Even Trying to Save the Marriage? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Expect from a Recovering Wayward Wife? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation? 10/10/2018 Q&A Can I Ever Expect My Mate's Attraction Towards the Affair Partner to End? 10/10/2018 Q&A What Can I Do for My Ambivalent Spouse? 10/10/2018 Q&A I Feel Stuck in My Mates Recovery. What Should I Do? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse? 9/26/2018 Q&A Am I Being Too Nice? 9/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Encouraging a Revenge Affair? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do I Recover from the Devastation I Feel Regarding His Infidelities? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do We Get Closure? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Barriers to Intimacy? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Effectively Encourage My Spouse to Receive Individual Expert Help? 9/12/2018 Q&A Can You Offer Insight into Getting Un-Stuck? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Combat Visual Triggers? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for Consistent Honesty? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Get past the Deceit and Betrayal? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Stop the Intrusive Thoughts? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Lying? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings towards the Affair Partner? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with Working with My Spouse's Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was? 8/22/2018 Q&A Where Is the Humility and Empathy? 8/22/2018 Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That My Wayward Spouse to Become More Ambivalent? 8/22/2018 Q&A Will My Husband Ever 'Get It'? 8/15/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse? 8/15/2018 Q&A Am I Making Too Much of the Words My Mate Uses? 8/15/2018 Q&A Will My Spouse Ever Grow Up? 8/15/2018 Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Let Go of the Hurt from What My Spouse Shared with the Affair Partner? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Do We Rebuild from the Rubble at This Point? 8/08/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Trauma to My Husband? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Move On? 8/08/2018 Q&A Do I Let Her Go? 8/08/2018 Q&A What Will Happen to My Wayward Spouse If She Never Pursues Healing? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Are You Supposed to 'Enjoy' Your Mate When There Is so Much Anger and Pain? 8/08/2018 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Still Curious about the Affair Partner? 8/08/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Mates Behavior Patterns? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Can My Mate Help Restore My Honor? 8/01/2018 Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Triggers in the Curriculum? 7/23/2018 Q&A Did My Husband Love Me While He Was Being Unfaithful to Me? 7/16/2018 Q&A Shouldn't My Mate Be More Empathetic by Now? 7/16/2018 Q&A What If He Can Never Truly See the Affair Partner for Who They Are? 7/16/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…121314151617181920…next ›last »