For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 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The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 1206 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Do I Do about My Mean Unfaithful Spouse? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do I Move past the Feelings of Rage I Have Towards the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can Regularly Consuming the Content of the Betrayed Forums Be Counter-Productive to Healing? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Our Situation? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can I Change My Unfaithful Mates Perception of the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A What Do I Do with Triggering Pictures? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Have Any Recommendations for Communicating My Needs? 7/11/2018 Q&A Are There Differences in Love of Spouse in Marriage and Love of the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can My Husband Heal without Continued Expert Help? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Much Information Should I Have about the Affair? 7/11/2018 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable by Wanting My Mate to View the Affair Partner in a Different Light? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Thinking? 7/11/2018 Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me? 7/06/2018 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Taking Recovery Seriously? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband Who Is Ambivalent and Distant? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Mate to Come out of Limerence? 6/27/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery? 6/27/2018 Q&A Will the Respect I Had for My Spouse Come Back over Time? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A Why Does My Husband Act like I’m the One with the Problem? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Unfaithful Mate through the Recovery Process? 6/07/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Want to Leave When My Spouse Is Doing the Right Work? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can a Wife Ever Get over Her Husband Having Sex with the Affair Partner in Their Home? 6/06/2018 Q&A Why Does His Shame Trump My Pain? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Can My Honor Be Restored at My Unfaithful Spouse's Workplace? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I'm Not so Jaded? 5/23/2018 Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth? 5/18/2018 Q&A Will My Formerly Wayward Spouse Ever Feel Special to Me Again? 5/09/2018 Q&A Is His Betrayal Too Much to Overcome, or Is There Really Hope? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Will I Know When the Time Is Right to Date Again? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Learn to Love My Spouse Again? 5/07/2018 Q&A Will My Wife Ever Stop Blaming Me for Her Affair? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Heal from All of the Secrets My Husband Kept from Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A When Will I Begin to Love My Mate Again? 4/18/2018 Q&A How Do You Make Life Changing Decisions a Few Months after D-Day? 4/11/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope When I Feel Inferior to the Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Get past the Feeling That He Enjoyed the Sex with the Affair Partner? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Work on the Marriage with an Unfaithful Wife That Won't Do Recovery Work? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Face What This Did to Us? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Use Harboring Hope to Recover from Infidelity in Two Marriages? 4/05/2018 Q&A What's Wrong with Me? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Do You Recommend for the Habitual Liar? 4/05/2018 Q&A Why Save the Marriage Instead of Starting New Elsewhere? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story? 3/23/2018 Q&A Does It Matter If My Husband Never Told the Truth about the Affair? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Can My Unfaithful Husband Be Sexually Satisfied with Me after Being Intimate with a Young Pretty Girl? 3/23/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021…next ›last »