For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 1299 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Long Will the Triggers Continue? 3/20/2019 Q&A Why Am I so Concerned About the Affair Partner? 3/20/2019 Q&A Is This Blame Shifting? 3/20/2019 Q&A Should I Try to Make Amends for My Part in the Failed Recovery? 3/13/2019 Q&A Why Is My Resentment Growing? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Believe That My Mate Really Loved Me during Their Affair? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Get past the Hurtful Words Said by the Wayward Spouse? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Cleanse My Body and Heart? 2/22/2019 Q&A Am I Stuck? 2/20/2019 Q&A What Am I Dealing with When It Comes to My Wayward Spouse? 2/20/2019 Q&A Did My Trust Contribute to the Infidelity? 2/20/2019 Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Questioning My Fidelity? 2/20/2019 Q&A Is My Mate Still in Limerence? 2/20/2019 Q&A Am I a Hypocrite for Staying? 2/13/2019 Q&A Why Is the Timeline of the Affair so Important to Me? 2/13/2019 Q&A Why Does My Husband Use Distraction and Blame to Get Himself out of Owning What He’s Done? 1/30/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Know He Really Wants Me and to Save Our Marriage and Not Just Save His Image? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal When Time Has Been Taken from Me? 1/28/2019 Q&A Is There Any Reason to Still Be Here? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Love Again for the Wayward Spouse? 1/16/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Pursuing Me? 1/16/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance? 1/16/2019 Q&A Do I Save Myself or Save the Marriage? 1/16/2019 A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with Comparison to the Affair Partner? 1/09/2019 Q&A Am I Expecting too Much? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Know I'm Not Paranoid? 11/28/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Mate That Their Affair Partner Tried to Contact Them? 11/28/2018 Q&A What Happens When the Wayward Refuses to Get Help? 11/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Confront My Mate about Their Porn Use? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Understand What They've Done? 11/07/2018 Q&A Am I Shaming My Husband When I Bring up His past Behaviors? 11/07/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Deal with Ambivalence? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Live with a Spouse That Is Grieving the Affair Partner? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 11/01/2018 Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me? 11/01/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Q&A Is It Useful to Think about What Could've Happened? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Has My Mate Broken My Trust Again? 10/23/2018 Q&A Should We Continue with EMSO If My Mate Won't Break Contact With the Affair Partner? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Does It Seem like My Unfaithful Husband Acts like the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2018 Q&A Am I Crazy for Even Trying to Save the Marriage? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Expect from a Recovering Wayward Wife? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation? 10/10/2018 Q&A Can I Ever Expect My Mate's Attraction Towards the Affair Partner to End? 10/10/2018 Q&A What Can I Do for My Ambivalent Spouse? 10/10/2018 Q&A I Feel Stuck in My Mates Recovery. 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