Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse?
4/12/2023
Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed?
4/12/2023
Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse?
3/17/2023
Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women?
3/17/2023
Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair?
2/17/2023
Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner?
1/26/2023
Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn?
1/26/2023
Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This?
1/11/2023
Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure?
1/11/2023
Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable?
1/11/2023
Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her?
1/11/2023
Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel?
1/11/2023
Why is Trusting Again So Hard?
1/04/2023
Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted
12/07/2022
Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions?
12/06/2022
Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me?
12/06/2022
Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too?
12/06/2022
Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis?
12/06/2022
Pleasing Versus Loving
11/29/2022
The Mystery of Change
11/02/2022
Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure?
10/13/2022
Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery?
10/13/2022
The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change
10/05/2022
Anger: Its 6 Roots
9/28/2022
Q&A What Can We Do Differently?
9/13/2022
Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are?
8/26/2022
Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body?
8/03/2022
Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal?
8/03/2022
Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy?
8/03/2022
Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband?
8/03/2022
Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him?
8/03/2022
Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self
7/06/2022
Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me?
7/01/2022
Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work?
7/01/2022
Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss
6/15/2022
Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again?
6/14/2022
Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph?
6/14/2022
Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Want Me to Obey Him after His Affair?
6/14/2022
Q&A Could It Be Limerance When the Affair Partner Is an Old Flame?
6/14/2022
Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial
6/08/2022
Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It
6/01/2022
Q&A How Do I Handle Knowing the ‘Who’ Matters More to Me than the ‘What’?
5/24/2022
Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade?
5/24/2022
Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner?
5/24/2022
Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability
5/18/2022
Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability
5/18/2022
Are You Vulnerable to an Affair?
5/18/2022
Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health?
4/20/2022
Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us?
4/20/2022
Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again?
4/08/2022