Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable?
10/23/2023
Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?
10/23/2023
Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me?
10/23/2023
The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope
10/18/2023
Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery
10/04/2023
Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment?
9/29/2023
Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long?
9/29/2023
Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders
9/20/2023
Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love?
9/12/2023
Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me?
9/12/2023
A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure
8/16/2023
Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded?
8/15/2023
Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure?
8/15/2023
How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity?
7/19/2023
Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery
7/12/2023
Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner?
6/29/2023
Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There?
6/29/2023
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise?
6/16/2023
Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work?
6/16/2023
Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty?
6/16/2023
Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family?
6/16/2023
Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner?
6/16/2023
Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs?
6/16/2023
How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling)
5/24/2023
Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain?
5/19/2023
Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds?
5/19/2023
Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity?
5/19/2023
Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal?
5/19/2023
Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing?
5/19/2023
Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate?
5/19/2023
Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend?
5/02/2023
Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did?
5/02/2023
Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse?
4/12/2023
Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed?
4/12/2023
Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse?
3/17/2023
Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women?
3/17/2023
Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair?
2/17/2023
Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner?
1/26/2023
Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn?
1/26/2023
Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This?
1/11/2023
Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure?
1/11/2023
Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable?
1/11/2023
Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her?
1/11/2023
Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel?
1/11/2023
Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted
12/07/2022
Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions?
12/06/2022
Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me?
12/06/2022
Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too?
12/06/2022
Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis?
12/06/2022
Pleasing Versus Loving
11/29/2022