For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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Video Q&A What Do We Do When the Affair Partner Refuses to Cooperate about the Child? 12/17/2021
Video Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries If They Keep Being Disregarded and Violated? 12/17/2021
Video Q&A Should I Change Churches or Should I Just Get Over It since It Was All in His Fantasies? 12/17/2021
Video Q&A What Should I Do With the Saved Messages between My Husband and His Affair Partners? 12/17/2021
Video Q&A Why Is He Okay as Long as I Don’t Talk about It? How Can We Get past This If He’s Unwilling to Answer Questions? 12/17/2021
Video Q&A Should We Abstain from Sex at This Point in Our Recovery? 12/17/2021
Video Q&A At What Point Is It Unhealthy to Be Avoiding Events Because the Affair Partner May Go or Avoiding Places Because They Once Went There Together? 12/17/2021
Text Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021
Text Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021
Text Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021
Video Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Playing the Victim in Our Relationship? 11/19/2021
Video Q&A Can His Expressed Feelings of Love Be True When He Was Deceiving and Betraying Me? 11/19/2021
Video Q&A How Much Should I Allow My Hurt Spouse to Vent and Control Conversations? 11/19/2021
Video Q&A What Can I Ask My Spouse to Do That Also Requires the Same Amount of Effort in the Process of Recovery? 11/19/2021
Video Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Make a Symbolic Sacrifice to Help My Healing? 11/04/2021
Video Q&A What Type of Dilemma Am I In? 11/04/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021
Video Q&A Is He Sincere? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Not Only Acknowledge the Humiliation upon Our Family and Me, but Also to Fix the Amount of Humiliation He’s Placed on Our Family to Our Town? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Go Back to the Affair Partner? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A Did I Do the Right Thing by Sharing My Trigger and How Do I Handle This Situation in the Future? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A Why Is My Husband Deleting Messages to His Mother before I See Them? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A What Do I Do about a Sex Tape That My Spouse Made with the Affair Partner? 9/08/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Move On When I Feel like He’s Lying about What Really Happened? 9/08/2021
Video Q&A Should I do EMDR or Harboring Hope First? 9/08/2021
Video Q&A Where Do I Go After EMS Online? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A Should I Let Him Go? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A How Could He Go from Begging Me to Stay to This? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A Is It Possible That the Shame Is Creating a Barrier to Empathy? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A Why Does This Hurt Me? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Handle This Conflict between What He’s Saying and What He’s Doing? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With This When I Cannot Reasonably Ask Her to Quit Working nor Can I Check In Frequently to Make Sure It's Not Happening Again? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Other Counselor’s ‘Okaying’ My Husband’s Continuation of His Rock-Concert Gigs? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair? 8/02/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner? 8/02/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Now Be the Bad Guy? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A Do You Advise Me to Have a Session with My Psychologist, Family, And Friends to Discuss the Things He Has Said About Me? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A Should I Share the Date I Have Set For Making a Decision with My Husband? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A Is Keeping Him from Moving Home Making Things Worse? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Healing and My Husband? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A Why Did My Husband Have Such a Seemingly Lame Affair? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A Is Location-Sharing and Access to Phones Recommended? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With His Advice without Feeling He Is Criticizing Me? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Stop the Feeling That I Constantly Need to Check on My Wayward Spouse for Safety? 7/13/2021

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