For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1272 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Get Over This Betrayal? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Can I Ever Get Over His Believing He Loved The Affair Partner? 4/06/2022 Q&A As a Betrayed Husband Is It Unrealistic to Want My Wife to Pursue Me Physically? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do We Continue in This Process When Only One of Us Is Committed? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation? 3/25/2022 Q&A How Can I Put In the Effort Needed on My End for Intimacy without Getting the Same Failed Result? 3/25/2022 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022 Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 3/10/2022 Q&A If My Spouse Felt So Much Guilt and Shame the First Time, Why Did They Do It Again? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Was He Able to Do a 180 Turn on Discovery? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Do We Create a Shared View of Our Relationship When We Have No Valid Timelines to Reference? 3/10/2022 Q&A Why Was It Easy for Him to Be Nice to Everyone but Me, His Wife? 3/10/2022 Q&A Do You Agree It’s Necessary to Re-Establish No Contact? 2/17/2022 Q&A Why Don’t I Respect My Husband? 2/17/2022 Q&A How Should I Go About Trying to Get to Ground Zero? 2/17/2022 Q&A How Do I Get past the Affair Partner Continually Sending Me Photos and Descriptive Dialog? 2/17/2022 Q&A What Do I Do When My Partner Is in Denial about His Infidelity? 2/17/2022 Q&A Should a Wayward Spouse Be Allowed to Have Friends of the Opposite Gender? 2/17/2022 Q&A How do I Heal? 2/17/2022 Q&A Is He Just Not Interested in Me or Did He Magically Figure Out How to Treat a Woman? 2/17/2022 Q&A When an Intrusive Thought Occurs, How Do I Know the Difference between Suppressing and Ignoring That Thought versus Not Giving It Any Airtime, Capturing It, and Redirecting My Thinking to Something Else? 2/02/2022 Q&A Am I Being Closed Minded? 2/02/2022 Q&A How Should I Deal With Characteristics That I Do Not Possess, Yet Seem to Have Been Sought after by My Spouse in the Affair Partners? 2/02/2022 Q&A What Do I Do to Protect My, and My Children’s, Heart? 2/02/2022 Q&A How Can I Get To a More Balanced Psyche? 2/02/2022 Q&A Is It Wrong to Feel a Sense of a Sexual Revolution, after His Affair? 2/02/2022 Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022 Q&A Am I Choosing Closeness over Intimacy When I Don’t Let My Mate Know About Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Lovemaking? 1/18/2022 Q&A How Can My Wife Believe That She Fulfilled Her Fantasy If She Also Says That’s Not Who She Truly Is? 1/18/2022 Q&A Is This Finally Enough to Divorce and End Recovery Work? 1/18/2022 Q&A What Type of Recovery Program Does My Husband Need? 1/18/2022 Q&A How Can I Get My Emotionally Unavailable Husband to Walk toward the Storm Instead of Away? 1/18/2022 Q&A Are My Expectations Too High? 12/17/2021 Q&A What Do We Do When the Affair Partner Refuses to Cooperate about the Child? 12/17/2021 Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries If They Keep Being Disregarded and Violated? 12/17/2021 Q&A Should I Change Churches or Should I Just Get Over It since It Was All in His Fantasies? 12/17/2021 Q&A What Should I Do With the Saved Messages between My Husband and His Affair Partners? 12/17/2021 Q&A Why Is He Okay as Long as I Don’t Talk about It? How Can We Get past This If He’s Unwilling to Answer Questions? 12/17/2021 Q&A Should We Abstain from Sex at This Point in Our Recovery? 12/17/2021 Q&A At What Point Is It Unhealthy to Be Avoiding Events Because the Affair Partner May Go or Avoiding Places Because They Once Went There Together? 12/17/2021 Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021 Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Playing the Victim in Our Relationship? 11/19/2021 Q&A Can His Expressed Feelings of Love Be True When He Was Deceiving and Betraying Me? 11/19/2021 Q&A How Much Should I Allow My Hurt Spouse to Vent and Control Conversations? 11/19/2021 Q&A What Can I Ask My Spouse to Do That Also Requires the Same Amount of Effort in the Process of Recovery? 11/19/2021 Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Make a Symbolic Sacrifice to Help My Healing? 11/04/2021 Q&A What Type of Dilemma Am I In? 11/04/2021 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
