For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse?
Video icon Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women?
Video icon Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn?
Video icon Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure?
Video icon Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her?
Text icon Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel?
Text icon Why is Trusting Again So Hard?
Text icon Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me?
Video icon Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis?
Text icon Pleasing Versus Loving
Text icon The Mystery of Change
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery?
Text icon The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change
Text icon Anger: Its 6 Roots
Video icon Q&A What Can We Do Differently?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy?
Video icon Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him?
Text icon Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self
Video icon Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me?
Video icon Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work?
Text icon Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again?
Video icon Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Want Me to Obey Him after His Affair?
Video icon Q&A Could It Be Limerance When the Affair Partner Is an Old Flame?
Text icon Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial
Text icon Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Knowing the ‘Who’ Matters More to Me than the ‘What’?
Video icon Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner?
Text icon Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability
Text icon Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability
Text icon Are You Vulnerable to an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health?
Video icon Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again?