For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me?
Text icon The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope
Text icon Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery
Video icon Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long?
Text icon Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders
Video icon Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love?
Video icon Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me?
Text icon A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure
Video icon Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure?
Text icon How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity?
Text icon Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work?
Video icon Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs?
Text icon How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling)
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend?
Video icon Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse?
Video icon Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women?
Video icon Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn?
Video icon Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure?
Video icon Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her?
Text icon Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel?
Text icon Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me?
Video icon Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis?
Text icon Pleasing Versus Loving