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The Power of Small Groups Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 1273 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Important Is It for My Husband to Choose Me versus Need Me? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can You Speak to Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Our Counseling Situation? 5/24/2017 Q&A What's Important to Process After His Infidelity? 5/24/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Q&A My Spouse Is Stuck. How Can I Help Her Heal?” 5/17/2017 Q&A Why Do I Feel Like I've Regressed to Where I Was 10 Years Ago? 5/17/2017 Q&A Should I Have the Same Anger towards My Affair Partner That My Spouse Has? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Hurt without Her Feeling Shame? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Begin Share the Affair Details with My Mate? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for Someone Not to Be Ambivalent? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Rekindle the Love for My Mate If They Won't Cooperate? 5/03/2017 Q&A If I Learn There Were More People Than I Initially Thought, Does My Healing Process Begin Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Get Rid of My Shame? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can I Give My Wife Hope after Betraying Her So Deeply? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Why Did I Do This and How Do I Get out of This Pit? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Possible to Build a New Marriage without Physical Intimacy? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Get to the Point Where I Can Give the Marriage the Chance to Rekindle the Love? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Learn to Cope and Handle the Hurt? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can She Be So Kind Now after the Way She Treated Me Just a Year Ago? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum? 5/03/2017 Q&A Should We Discuss My Faults in the Marriage Now or Wait until He Takes Responsibility for His Infidelities? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is an EMS Course an Option with the Affair Partner Still in the Picture? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much? 4/25/2017 Q&A Why Do You Say Oral Sex Is 'Always about Sex'? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried That She's Not Sharing Her Intrusive Thoughts with Me? 4/25/2017 Q&A When Will I Stop Being Angry and Start Grieving? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together? 4/25/2017 Q&A Why Was He a Different Person in His Affairs? Why Can't He Be More Like That with Me? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Is Shaming? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Are Possibilities If My Spouse Isn't Comfortable with Group Work? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should Communication with Counselors Be Enough for Me to Feel Supported? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Will My Spouse See That I Never Loved My Affair Partner? 4/12/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017 Q&A What can I do to help my parents understand the level in which I have been hurt? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is This the Right Time to Go to an EMS Weekend? 3/29/2017 Q&A How Much Time Should I Give It before I Can Tell Whether or Not We Will Recover? 3/29/2017 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Our Counselors Process? 3/22/2017 Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017 Q&A Why Would I Stay with Him? 3/15/2017 Q&A My Unfaithful Husband Is Remorseful but I'm Not Interested. 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