Recovery Fundamentals
Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough.
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Video Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A Should We Discuss My Faults in the Marriage Now or Wait until He Takes Responsibility for His Infidelities? 5/03/2017
Video Q&A Is an EMS Course an Option with the Affair Partner Still in the Picture? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Why Do You Say Oral Sex Is 'Always about Sex'? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Should I Be Worried That She's Not Sharing Her Intrusive Thoughts with Me? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A When Will I Stop Being Angry and Start Grieving? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Why Was He a Different Person in His Affairs? Why Can't He Be More Like That with Me? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A What Is Shaming? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A What Are Possibilities If My Spouse Isn't Comfortable with Group Work? 4/25/2017
Video Q&A Should Communication with Counselors Be Enough for Me to Feel Supported? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A How Will My Spouse See That I Never Loved My Affair Partner? 4/12/2017
Video Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A What can I do to help my parents understand the level in which I have been hurt? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Is This the Right Time to Go to an EMS Weekend? 3/29/2017
Video Q&A How Much Time Should I Give It before I Can Tell Whether or Not We Will Recover? 3/29/2017
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Our Counselors Process? 3/22/2017
Video Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017
Video Q&A Why Would I Stay with Him? 3/15/2017
Video Q&A My Unfaithful Husband Is Remorseful but I'm Not Interested. What Should I Do? 3/15/2017
Video Q&A Can You Share More about the Detox Phase for the Unfaithful Spouse? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Request a Polygraph from My Mate? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A Will It Hurt Our Recovery If I Never Receive Full Disclosure? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A Have We Traded One Self Centered Lifestyle for Another? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A When Do You Know It's as Good as It's Going to Get? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A Why Would I Choose to Stay with Her? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A What is Reasonable to Expect in the 18-24 Month Timeline? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A What Other Steps Should We Take to Work towards Reaching a Full Recovery? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A When Do Unfaithful Women Typically Begin to Show Empathy? 3/08/2017
Video Expert Q&A Preview: Am I Looking at Forgiveness Wrong? 2/28/2017
Video Q&A What Do I Do Now? He's Still a Liar and Our Marriage Is a Fake. 2/28/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Give Our Marriage a Chance? 2/22/2017
Video Q&A Will My Husband Ever Recommit to the Marriage? 2/22/2017
Video Q&A Can Pop Psychology Predict Our Compatibility? 2/22/2017
Video Q&A Am I Sabotaging Our Relationship Because I'm Not Getting What I Want? 2/15/2017
Video Q&A What Therapy Would You Suggest for Us? 2/15/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward Feeling That I Don't Have the Truth? 2/15/2017
Video Q&A Where do I go from Here? I'm Hesitant to Attend EMS Weekend. 2/08/2017
Video Q&A Can I Speak to the Affair Partner in this Situation? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How can we Help Her Heal from Her Past Actions? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How can I Regain Positive Feelings Towards the Man Who Betrayed Me? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A What can I do Now that I Feel Doomed to an Unfulfilled Married Life? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A Should I Actively Fight my Apathy Towards my Husband or Will it Break Down Naturally? 2/08/2017

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