Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

1115 Resources
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Video icon Q&A What Are Your Recommendations for My Situation?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Recommend for the Habitual Liar?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story?
Video icon Q&A What Actions Are Necessary from the Unfaithful during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Protect Our Young Children during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Truly Regain Trust?
Video icon Q&A What Things Do the Betrayed Need to Consider When Deciding Whether or Not to Reconcile?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Isn't Trying to Recover?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Unfaithful Mate's Intrusive Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A Is It Beneficial to Allow Your Mate to Read Your Journal?
Video icon Q&A Could His Behaviors towards His Co-Workers Explain His Disconnection with Me?
Video icon Q&A Is My Husband Safe?
Text icon Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling
Text icon How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do with Intense Thoughts during Sexual Interactions?
Video icon Q&A Is It Acceptable Behavior for My Husband to Have a Female Friend?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with On-Going D-Days?
Video icon Q&A How to We Navigate Recovery with a History of Abuse?
Video icon Q&A Is a Separation Unreasonable after Multiple Relapses?
Video icon Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses
Video icon Q&A How Can We Maintain Safety While Navigating Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation?
Video icon Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Does My Mate Turn Their Life Around?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Criticizing My Attempts to Become Independent?
Video icon Q&A Is My Mate Safe for Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling?
Video icon Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'?
Video icon Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP?
Text icon Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT
Video icon Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance?
Video icon Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do When the Affair Partner Won't Let Go?
Video icon Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter?
Video icon Q&A What Can Affair Recovery Do Tell Help a Compulsive Liar?
Video icon Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Surrender Control?
Video icon Q&A How Do You End an Affair with an Unstable Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Is It Time to Move On?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Heal from the Massive Anxiety I Am Now Facing?
Video icon Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe?
Video icon Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again?