Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? 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