All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? 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Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Any Advice for Us After a Huge Backslide? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Work Through Resentment and Commit Back to My Mate? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can a Sex Addict Simply Choose to Not Act Out? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A What Are Some Practical Steps or Books to Help With Fantasy Life? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Face the Triggers I Receive from His Workplace Reality? 11/23/2016 Q&A Could My Knowledge of their Affair Add to My Hopelessness? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do I Face this Ongoing Trauma While my Spouse 'Let's Go' of the Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A How is Recovery Possible After a 10 Year Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can I Recover Without Fully Knowing About Her Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Safely Break off Contact Between Our Kids and the Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With an Extremely Obstinate Unfaithful Spouse? 11/23/2016 Q&A Since the Affair Story Still Hurts Him, Should We Let Sleeping Dogs Lie? 11/23/2016 Q&A How am I Supposed to be the Best Husband I Can be After She Cheated? 11/23/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Q&A Could my Unfaithful Wife Be in the Neutral Stage? 11/02/2016 Q&A Is there Any Hope for Getting Over the Pain and Anger of Betrayal? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Feel Safe While I Can't Remember Details that He Wants? 11/02/2016 Q&A Can You Suggest Any Free Programs to Help My Spouse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Given the Length of Trickle Truth, Should I Retake the Harboring Hope Group? 11/02/2016 Q&A Are We Losing Our Vigilance in Recovery? 11/02/2016 Q&A What Rules Should We Follow During Our No Contact Separation? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Confront My Mate With the Evidence of His Relapse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Just Let Him Divorce Me after His Affairs? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Demand My Mate Take a Polygraph? 11/02/2016 Q&A What Type of Affair Was This? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can We Safely Have Intimacy While He Sustains From Sexual Addiction? 11/02/2016 Q&A In this Situation, Should I Inform the Affair Partner's Spouse of Risky Behavior? 11/02/2016 Q&A Why Does He Continually Want Her and Not Me? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Share My Anxiety and Concerns With Him? 10/24/2016 Q&A Why Would He Make a Decision to do This? 10/24/2016 Q&A What Does Prayerfully Consider Really Mean? 10/24/2016 Q&A How do you Know if Someone is a Sex Addict or Just Wanting Something More? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Try to Hold On? 10/24/2016 Q&A qWhat Are Appropriate Separation Protocols? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History? 10/24/2016 Q&A Did I Forgive Too Soon? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Many Times Should I Give Him Another Chance? 10/24/2016 Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Get Past this Lifelong Belief System? 10/24/2016 Q&Aqw How can the Unfaithful's Claimed Intentions be so Drastically Different from their Actions? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Know if My Unfaithful Spouse is Truly Committed to the Marriage and Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is My Husband Evil, or Just Extremely Cruel? 10/24/2016 Q&A What are Scientific Psychological Side Effects from this sort of Marital Betrayal? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Stay in My Marriage With Fear Based Motivation and Find True Happiness Eventually? 10/24/2016 Q&A Should We Part Ways Now to Save Ourselves? 10/24/2016 Q&A Are There Any Similarities Between the Betrayed Spouses that Don't Reconcile? 10/24/2016 Q&A How do I Manage My Husband's Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will it Ever be Safe to Not Have Safe Sex With a Cheater? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will the Nightmare Ever End so I Can Find a Brighter Future? 10/24/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…636465666768697071…next ›last »