All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Problem with Forgiveness Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 4984 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Forgive Myself for Transmitting My Pain? 1/08/2018 Q&A What Are Signs That Someone Might Relapse? 1/08/2018 Q&A Is It Unreasonable to Expect My Mate to Be Honest about Their Needs? 1/08/2018 Q&A What Can Affair Recovery Do Tell Help a Compulsive Liar? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do Actions Affect Identity? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Is God Present in Our Struggles? 1/08/2018 Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Surrender Control? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can I Know If the Changes Are Genuine? 12/20/2017 Q&A What Should My New Dream Look Like? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can He Not Get It? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do You End an Affair with an Unstable Affair Partner? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Do I Feel Stuck? 12/20/2017 Q&A Does He Really Want Me? 12/20/2017 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Is It Taking My Unfaithful Husband Longer to Get over His Affair Than Me? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can I Get past These Incredibly Painful Feelings? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is He an Addict? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Did My Husband Treat Me Like His Greatest Enemy during His Secret Affair? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Move On? 12/20/2017 Q&A Do You Think Cheaters Are Just Morally Bankrupt? 12/20/2017 Q&A Will This Pain Ever Let up over Time or Will Seeing This Constantly Keep Us All from Healing? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Accept That My Mate Is Frustrated at Non-Affair Things? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can We Find an Appropriate Couples Counselor? 12/20/2017 Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Aren't There More People Doing Blogs? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Engage? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is My Mate Drawn towards Something Bad and Repulsed by Something Good? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Long Will the Emotional Fog Last? 12/20/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Heal from the Massive Anxiety I Am Now Facing? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can My Mate Heal from Sexual Anorexia? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Do You Work on a Marriage You Might End up Leaving? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Does the Unfaithful Compare Their Mate to the Affair Partner? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do You Handle Doubt? 12/20/2017 Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Address My Separation Anxiety? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Long Will the Unfaithful Stay Ambivalent? 12/20/2017 Q&A Do You Think I Am Wise to Pursue Forgiveness? 12/06/2017 Q&A What's the Normal Length of Time People Refrain from Sex after Discovering Infidelity? 12/06/2017 Q&A When Is Enough, Enough? 12/06/2017 Q&A Would a Lie Detector Test Help or Hurt? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If I’ve Forgiven? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017 Q&A Will I Ever Get past This? 12/06/2017 Q&A Can You Explain How to Handle Grief? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do You Get That Special Place Back Again? 12/06/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…525354555657585960…next ›last »