All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 4970 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is This as Good as it Gets? 3/29/2017 Q&A Is This the Right Time to Go to an EMS Weekend? 3/29/2017 Q&A Can You Explain Why a Book on Sexual Retraining Won't Trigger My Mate? 3/29/2017 Q&A How Much Time Should I Give It before I Can Tell Whether or Not We Will Recover? 3/29/2017 Q&A What Type of Affair Is This? 3/29/2017 Q&A Will Your Book Suggestion Trigger Me? 3/22/2017 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Our Counselors Process? 3/22/2017 Q&A What Should I Do about His Behavior towards Me? 3/22/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Him Working Long Distance with My Lack of Trust? 3/22/2017 Q&A How Can She Help Me Rebuild My Trust in Her? 3/22/2017 Q&A Is This a Reasonable Expectation to Ensure Our Son's Safety? 3/22/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for Affair Partners to Be Called a Boyfriend or Girlfriend? 3/22/2017 Q&A Will the Nature of Our Disclosure Complicate Our Healing? 3/22/2017 Q&A Can You Expand Your Thoughts on Financial Infidelity? 3/22/2017 Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017 Q&A Why Would I Stay with Him? 3/15/2017 Q&A Do You Know of a Resource That Can Help Me and My Sister? 3/15/2017 Q&A What Is the Role of Sex in Reconnecting in Our Situation? 3/15/2017 Q&A My Unfaithful Husband Is Remorseful but I'm Not Interested. What Should I Do? 3/15/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for Him to Still Think about Her and Desire Her? 3/08/2017 Q&A Can You Share More about the Detox Phase for the Unfaithful Spouse? 3/08/2017 Q&A Is My Struggle with God Normal and How Do I Move past It? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Do I Request a Polygraph from My Mate? 3/08/2017 Q&A Will It Hurt Our Recovery If I Never Receive Full Disclosure? 3/08/2017 Q&A Have We Traded One Self Centered Lifestyle for Another? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Was the Sex and Intimacy Retreat Like? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Can I Get past Our Wedding Anniversary? 3/08/2017 Q&A When Do You Know It's as Good as It's Going to Get? 3/08/2017 Q&A Why Would I Choose to Stay with Her? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Do We Make It through the Course If It's Been Bad for the First 5 Weeks? 3/08/2017 Q&A What is Reasonable to Expect in the 18-24 Month Timeline? 3/08/2017 Q&A Is It Possible to Let My Shield Down and Heal This? 3/08/2017 Q&A Is His Lack of Transparency Grounds for Divorce? 3/08/2017 Q&A Should I Continue to Focus on My Own Therapy at This Point? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Is a Reasonable Shift of Expectations for My Mate in Recovery? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Do I Face Pregnancy as a Trigger? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Do I Regain My Confidence as a Mom When the Principals I Teach Didn't Protect Me? 3/08/2017 Q&A Do Neglectful Mothers Create Sons Who Become Emotionally Unavailable and Love Avoidant Men? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Will I Know When I've Completely Forgiven Him? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Do I Stop Looking at Him as a Betrayer? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Get Him to Move Forward? 3/08/2017 Q&A Should This Friendship End? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Do We Navigate This and Reconnect Sexually? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Can Someone Hate Their Parent's Infidelity and Then Do It Themselves? 3/08/2017 Q&A What's the Best Way for Me to Handle My Struggle with Thought Life? 3/08/2017 Q&A Is It Common to Relapse More Than Once? 3/08/2017 Q&A Should I Consider Visiting Our Children without My Husband? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Can I Accept This Reality and Let Go? 3/08/2017 Q&A Is She Finally Choosing Me or Is It Something Else? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Do You Advise for Me to Set Safe Boundaries and Expectations? 3/08/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…626364656667686970…next ›last »