All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How to Survive Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Problem with Forgiveness Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 5033 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why is This Abuse Seemingly Acceptable and Forgivable? 3/15/2016 Q&A Can She Do More for Me? 3/15/2016 Q&A Can you Explain More About Vertical and Horizontal Forgiveness? 3/08/2016 Q&A Where was God in That Moment? 3/08/2016 Q&A What Recovery Work Should the Unfaithful Do? 3/08/2016 Q&A Am I a Sex Addict? 3/08/2016 Q&A Do you Agree with my Strategy? 3/08/2016 Q&A Should I Let my Spouse Know of This Trigger? 3/08/2016 Q&A What Can I Do to Handle the Shock? 3/08/2016 Q&A How Can I Find New Life in My Marriage? 3/08/2016 Q&A How Can I Deal With the Pain of the Betrayals? 3/08/2016 Q&A Do I Deserve to be Happy? 3/08/2016 Q&A When is it Appropriate to Set Boundaries Confrontationally? 3/01/2016 Q&A Are These Red Flags for Relapse? 3/01/2016 Q&A Can You Explain What's Happening? 3/01/2016 Q&A Will the Emptiness Caused by Betrayal Ever go Away? 3/01/2016 Q&A Am I Reaping What I Sowed Many Years Ago? 3/01/2016 Q&A What Reactions can We Expect from Our Children? 3/01/2016 Q&A What is the Right Thing to do in this Relationship? 3/01/2016 Q&A Is our Sexual Intimacy Normal at this Stage of Recovery? 3/01/2016 Q&A What's in the Best Interest of the Child? 3/01/2016 Q&A Can You Help Simplify our Complicated Idea of Love? 3/01/2016 Q&A How do I Get Past All the Things he Did? 2/26/2016 Q&A Are these Boundaries Reasonable? 2/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Help the Unfaithful With Their Shame? 2/26/2016 Q&A Could you Explain More About Full Disclosure? 2/26/2016 Q&A What are the Pros and Cons to Separation After Infidelity? 2/26/2016 Q&A Is Their Limbo Normal for this Length of Time? 2/26/2016 Q&A Should I Confront my Former Best Friend, the Affair Partner? 2/26/2016 Q&A Can there be Reformation and Healing from a Sex Addiction? 2/26/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 Q&A Rick, Did I Really Have an Affair? 2/23/2016 Q&A Any Practical Advice for Our Cycle? 2/23/2016 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Intimacy Anorexia? 2/23/2016 Q&A Do Others Struggle in This Way? 2/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Get Past What He Did? 2/23/2016 Q&A Is Masturbation Without Porn Wrong? 2/23/2016 Q&A To Ask or Not to Ask? 2/23/2016 A Protocol for Reminders 2/17/2016 Q&A Does This Affect How We Address Recovery? 2/16/2016 Q&A Do I Share This, or Suck it Up? 2/16/2016 Q&A Please Tell Me, What Else Can I Do? 2/16/2016 Q&A Are We in False Recovery? 2/16/2016 Q&A Is this the AP's Manipulation? 2/09/2016 Q&A How Much Change is Possible? 2/09/2016 Q&A Can a Sex Addict With This History be a Danger to Their Own Children? 2/09/2016 Q&A Are There any Interventions you Suggest? 2/09/2016 Q&A To Share or Not to Share Pet Peeves? 2/09/2016 Q&A Should we Discuss Her Resentments Toward me? 2/09/2016 Q&A Should we Both Make Changes to be Safe? 2/09/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…757677787980818283…next ›last »