All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4984 Resources Type Title Posted Am I Who They Want? 2/25/2025 Q&A How Much of This Developmental Trauma Contributed to Me Having an Affair in Adulthood? 2/25/2025 Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens? 2/25/2025 Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair? 2/25/2025 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 2/19/2025 Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers? 2/18/2025 Why the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Talk About the Affair 2/12/2025 Q&A Please Help Me Understand What My Reality Is as We Try to Recover from This. 2/11/2025 Q&A Will the Sadness and Intrusive Thoughts Ever Stop? 2/11/2025 Q&A How Do I Tell the Wayward Spouse I Need More Discussion to Heal and Process? 2/11/2025 Q&A How Do We Create Safety When My Husband Had an Emotional Affair with a Coworker for Approximately 7 Years? 2/11/2025 What Are Some Practical Steps to Take to Forgive My Spouse? 2/04/2025 Q&A Is It Possible to Have an Emotional Affair for Many Years and Not Be In Limerence? 2/04/2025 Q&A How Do We Protect Ourselves from an Aggressive and Persistent Affair Partner? 2/04/2025 Q&A Why Has My Spouse Refused to Cut Ties with His High School Sweetheart? 2/04/2025 Q&A Why Would the Wayward Spouse Continue to Lie About Plans with the Affair Partner? 2/04/2025 Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Raw Emotion from My Unfaithful Wife? 2/04/2025 How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse? 1/29/2025 Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2025 Destructive Patterns in Communication 1/15/2025 Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend? 1/14/2025 Q&A What Do You Do If the Wayward Spouse Shows No Remorse, Empathy, or Compassion? 1/14/2025 Q&A How Detailed Should the Disclosure Be for a 7-Year Emotional Affair With a Coworker? 1/08/2025 Q&A Do You Think I Should Reach Out to Affair Partner’s Wife and Disclose the Affair? 1/08/2025 Q&A Is the Connection I Have with My First Love (Not My Husband) Normal? 1/08/2025 Q&A How Important Is Attunement When Recovering from an Affair? 1/08/2025 Emotions Running Wild? Why You Lose Control After Infidelity 1/08/2025 Recovery Tips to Face the New Year 1/01/2025 Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective 12/26/2024 Tips for Surviving the Holidays 12/18/2024 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust When His Words Still Feel Scripted and Devoid of Genuine Empathy? 12/17/2024 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Our First Wedding Anniversary After Discovery? 12/17/2024 How to Prevent Relapse After Infidelity 12/11/2024 Were They Thinking of Me? 12/04/2024 Q&A What If My Husband Doesn’t Want to Change? 12/03/2024 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again? 12/03/2024 The Fantasyland of an Affair 11/27/2024 Q&A Will She Ever Tell the Truth Without Being Backed Into a Corner? 11/26/2024 Stop Faking It: A Woman’s View on Sex After Infidelity 11/20/2024 Mistakes Families Make After an Affair 11/13/2024 Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse? 11/12/2024 Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done? 11/12/2024 Was the Sex So Much Better in Their Affair? 11/06/2024 Q&A How Do I Handle My Issue With Disassociation? 11/05/2024 Q&A How Do We Navigate Outside Advice and Establish Boundaries to Protect Our Relationship? 10/30/2024 Q&A Could My Husband’s Actions Be Early Signs of Relapse? 10/30/2024 Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey? 10/30/2024 How Do We Silence Shame? 10/30/2024 Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 10/23/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Unfaithful Husband as He Seems to Be So Buried in Shame, Self-Loathing, and a Huge Sense of Worthlessness? 10/22/2024 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
