All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Power of Small Groups Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 5017 Resources Type Title Posted Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/17/2025 Q&A How Do I Move Forward from Here? 9/10/2025 Q&A Why Should I Continue in This Relationship? 9/10/2025 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 9/03/2025 Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves? 8/28/2025 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner? 8/28/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal from What Happened? 8/28/2025 Q&A Could You Provide Suggestion on How to Predict & Repair Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Engaging in Sex? 8/28/2025 Are Silence, Avoidance and Frustration Killing Your Recovery? 8/27/2025 Q&A What Makes Someone Vulnerable to a Previous Romantic Partner? 8/21/2025 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 8/20/2025 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage 8/13/2025 Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Spouse Love Me and Have an Affair Partner? 8/06/2025 Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband? 8/06/2025 Q&A Would You Ever Consider Hosting a ‘Trauma Therapy Specific’ Weekend Intensive? 8/06/2025 Rewriting the Story You Tell 7/30/2025 Q&A How Is Proper Closure with the Affair Partner Done in This Situation? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do Others Cope with No Answers or Resolutions? 7/23/2025 Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy? 7/23/2025 When Should You Stop Talking About the Affair? 7/23/2025 Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me? 7/21/2025 Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable? 7/21/2025 Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship? 7/09/2025 Moving from Self-Hatred to Self-Compassion 7/09/2025 Q&A Can You Please Give Some Direction on the Various Courses and the Best Way to Go Through Them? 7/02/2025 Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse? 7/02/2025 Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair? 7/02/2025 Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change? 7/02/2025 Will I Ever Feel Chosen? 7/02/2025 Forgiving Yourself: A Healing Necessity for Both Spouses 6/25/2025 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair? 6/18/2025 Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively? 6/18/2025 Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me? 6/18/2025 Movies & Infidelity: Why Hollywood Seems Obsessed with Sex & Secrets 6/18/2025 Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose? 6/12/2025 Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go? 6/12/2025 The Crucial Role of Disclosure in Healing (Survey) 6/11/2025 The Number One Question and How to Answer It 6/04/2025 Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner? 5/28/2025 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles? 5/28/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger? 5/28/2025 Q&A Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Change? 5/28/2025 The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma 5/28/2025 Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair 5/21/2025 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner? 5/14/2025 Pages123456789…next ›last »
