For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How to Survive Infidelity 1283 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate with My Mate? 9/06/2017 Q&A Should We Start the Healing Process over Again? 9/06/2017 Q&A Will EMDR Help with This Notion? 9/06/2017 Q&A Should the Unfaithful Spouse Lead Our Healing? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Become More Romantic? 8/18/2017 Q&A What Is Euphoric Recall? 8/18/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Personal Healing? 8/18/2017 Q&A Do You Think My Unfaithful Spouse Will Return? 8/18/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed to Feel Indifferent? 8/18/2017 Q&A Can He Be Safe for Me If He Continues to Use Porn? 7/26/2017 Q&A What Does My Mate Need to Feel Safe? 7/26/2017 Q&A Would It Be worth Shifting the Format of EMS Weekend? 7/26/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/26/2017 Q&A Did My Choices Contribute to the Affair? 7/26/2017 Q&A Is It Possible to Love Your Spouse and Have a Long Term Affair? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Manage My Triggers? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Stop Re-Traumatizing Myself? 7/26/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Q&A How Can I Connect With Others Like Me? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Stop My Negative Thought Pattern? 7/19/2016 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Betrayed Men? 5/03/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 Q&A Which Feelings Should I Listen to? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Does Grieving Look Like? 12/15/2015 Q&A Thanks for the Help, But What About My Betrayed Spouse? 12/01/2015 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 Q&A Why Is Infidelity So Traumatic? 10/27/2015 How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery? 10/27/2015 How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Important is a Normal Routine in Recovery? 9/28/2015 Q&A How can I Tell if I'm Handling this Well? 8/27/2015 Q&A Are there any Markers for Knowing Whether a Betrayed Spouse can Heal? 8/25/2015 Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015 Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair? 8/04/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner? 7/20/2015 Social Shame Survey 7/15/2015 Q&A Why Should I Own my Mistakes? 6/26/2015 Q&A Can You Help me Find Reasons to Stay? 6/26/2015 Q&A Is no Sexual Desire Common? 6/09/2015 Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015 Q&A When Can the Betrayed Spouse Move on? 5/19/2015 Q&A Why Start Over With Someone Who Deceived You and Cheated on You? 5/19/2015 Q&A Should I Separate From my Unfaithful Spouse? 5/19/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526next ›last »
