For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 1299 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Handle a Secure Workplace? 9/27/2017 Q&A Are There Similarities between Bipolar Disorder and Infidelity? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 9/20/2017 Q&A Can You Explain How Compartmentalization Works? 9/20/2017 Q&A Is There Such Thing as A "Fake Recovery"? 9/20/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for My Unfaithful Mate to Act This Way? 9/20/2017 Q&A Am I Living in Denial? 9/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Acceptance and What Does It Look Like? 9/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Get Him to See That He Has to Do the Work for Our Marriage to Survive? 9/20/2017 Q&A How Long Does It Take for Spouse to Grieve over the Affair Partner? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Continue Healing When I'm Surrounded by My Mates Negativity? 9/06/2017 Q&A Would You Please Expand on Your Experiences with Childhood Sexual Abuse and Sex Addiction? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Can the Betrayed Handle Triggers during Reconciliation? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Best Decide If I Stay or If I Go? 9/06/2017 Q&A When Is It My Turn for Healing? 9/06/2017 Q&A Am I Making a Mistake by Staying with Him? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate with My Mate? 9/06/2017 Q&A Should We Start the Healing Process over Again? 9/06/2017 Q&A Will EMDR Help with This Notion? 9/06/2017 Q&A Should the Unfaithful Spouse Lead Our Healing? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Become More Romantic? 8/18/2017 Q&A What Is Euphoric Recall? 8/18/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Personal Healing? 8/18/2017 Q&A Do You Think My Unfaithful Spouse Will Return? 8/18/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed to Feel Indifferent? 8/18/2017 Q&A Can He Be Safe for Me If He Continues to Use Porn? 7/26/2017 Q&A What Does My Mate Need to Feel Safe? 7/26/2017 Q&A Would It Be worth Shifting the Format of EMS Weekend? 7/26/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/26/2017 Q&A Did My Choices Contribute to the Affair? 7/26/2017 Q&A Is It Possible to Love Your Spouse and Have a Long Term Affair? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Manage My Triggers? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Stop Re-Traumatizing Myself? 7/26/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Q&A How Can I Connect With Others Like Me? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Stop My Negative Thought Pattern? 7/19/2016 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Betrayed Men? 5/03/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 Q&A Which Feelings Should I Listen to? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Does Grieving Look Like? 12/15/2015 Q&A Thanks for the Help, But What About My Betrayed Spouse? 12/01/2015 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 Q&A Why Is Infidelity So Traumatic? 10/27/2015 How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery? 10/27/2015 How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism? 10/27/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526next ›last »
