Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 539 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A Could My Knowledge of their Affair Add to My Hopelessness? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can I Recover Without Fully Knowing About Her Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A Since the Affair Story Still Hurts Him, Should We Let Sleeping Dogs Lie? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Feel Safe While I Can't Remember Details that He Wants? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Confront My Mate With the Evidence of His Relapse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Demand My Mate Take a Polygraph? 11/02/2016 Q&A Why Does He Continually Want Her and Not Me? 11/02/2016 Q&A Why Would He Make a Decision to do This? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History? 10/24/2016 Q&A Can There be no Feelings After an 8 Year Affair? 10/18/2016 Q&A How Can I Heal From the Affair in the Midst of Ongoing Trauma? 10/18/2016 Q&A How and When do I Process All the Information of the Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A After More Trickle Truth, How do I Handle the Fear of More Information? 9/28/2016 Q&A What does Full Disclosure of an Affair Look Like Practically? 9/28/2016 Q&A What if I Need to go Through All the Material I Collected from My Mate's Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A My Husband Insists We Move Forward Without Discussing the Affair. Is it Possible? 9/22/2016 Q&A Is God Not Opening the Right Door or is My Mate Not Walking Through? 9/14/2016 Q&A Why Did They Do Something We Can't Do Together? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Do I Answer the Questions I Don't Remember? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Do I Process All This Information About the Affairs? 9/14/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Move Past My Spouse Having an Affair on Our Anniversary? 9/07/2016 Q&A Why Does My Mate's Disclosure Not Make Sense? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate to Be Tested for STD's? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it My Mate or the Affair Partner Lying? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Settle These Questions in My Mind? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Do I Get Him to Give me Full Disclosure? 8/09/2016 Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations for Knowing the 'Why'? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving? 8/03/2016 Q&A With this Level of Drip Feeding Truth, Will I Regain Feelings for My Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Should I Hear My Mate's Feelings for the Affair Partner 8/03/2016 Q&A Should I Disclose the Additional Affair Details I Discovered? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Do We Prepare for Vacation Now? 7/13/2016 Q&A Does He Only Think of Her When I Bring it Up? 7/13/2016 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know? Part 2 7/13/2016 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know? Part 1 7/13/2016 Q&A Leave? Stay? Conflicted! 6/21/2016 Q&A Should the Unfaithful's Spouse's Story Make Sense? 6/14/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Move Forward With These Details? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Do You Begin Recovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A How do I Convince My Mate That I'm Telling the Truth? 6/06/2016 Q&A Should I Leave and Work on Me? 6/03/2016 Q&A Am I Making a Federal Case Out of a Misdemeanor? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Expose Them? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Bail Out? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Could a Polygraph be a Threat if there is Nothing to Hide? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Now? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Can I Get ALL the Truth? 5/10/2016 Q&A Should We Achieve Full Disclosure Now or Wait? 5/10/2016 Q&A Will This Method of Disclosure Cause me More Harm? 5/03/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…34567891011next ›last »
