Handling Discovery

We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.

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Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with This Level of Detail?
Video icon Q&A What's Important to Process After His Infidelity?
Video icon What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library
Video icon Q&A How Can We Handle the Embarrassment of People Knowing What My Spouse Did?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal for the Wayward Spouse to Admit Things at D-Day and Then Retract Them?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details?
Video icon Q&A Is It Necessary to Confess My One Night Stand to My Unfaithful Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A My Son Discovered My Spouse's Secret App. Now What?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Begin Share the Affair Details with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A If I Learn There Were More People Than I Initially Thought, Does My Healing Process Begin Again?
Video icon Q&A Now That Harboring Hope Is over Do We Tell Our Family or Friends about the Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero?
Video icon Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband?
Video icon Q&A Is It Important for the Betrayed Spouse to Get the Details?
Video icon Q&A Can this Be Turned Around?
Video icon Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist?
Video icon Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How do we handle the details?
Video icon Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist?
Video icon Q&A How do I Heal from PTSD Caused by Years of Deceit?
Video icon Q&A Will the Nature of Our Disclosure Complicate Our Healing?
Video icon Q&A Will It Hurt Our Recovery If I Never Receive Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do Now? He's Still a Liar and Our Marriage Is a Fake.
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward Feeling That I Don't Have the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Where do I go from Here? I'm Hesitant to Attend EMS Weekend.
Video icon Q&A Can I Speak to the Affair Partner in this Situation?
Video icon Q&A How do I Move Past Knowing that My Wife Shared our Marital Bed with Another Man and he Shared His with Her?
Video icon Q&A How do I Move Past the Fact that I May Not Have Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him?
Video icon Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying?
Video icon Q&A If I Don't Believe I Have the Truth about the Affair, is there any Hope?
Video icon Q&A How do I Get my Spouse to Understand my Need for Full Disclosure? The Affair is Ongoing.
Video icon Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A In this Scenario, Should we Inform Our Adult Children of His Affairs?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Find the Truth From so Long Ago?
Video icon Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning?
Video icon Q&A Could My Knowledge of their Affair Add to My Hopelessness?
Video icon Q&A Can I Recover Without Fully Knowing About Her Affair?
Video icon Q&A Since the Affair Story Still Hurts Him, Should We Let Sleeping Dogs Lie?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Feel Safe While I Can't Remember Details that He Wants?
Video icon Q&A Should I Confront My Mate With the Evidence of His Relapse?
Video icon Q&A Should I Demand My Mate Take a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A Why Does He Continually Want Her and Not Me?
Video icon Q&A Why Would He Make a Decision to do This?
Video icon Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History?
Video icon Q&A Can There be no Feelings After an 8 Year Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Heal From the Affair in the Midst of Ongoing Trauma?
Video icon Q&A How and When do I Process All the Information of the Affairs?