Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Give My Mate an Ultimatum?
Video icon Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Our Children?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do Now That There Is a Child with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Could You Elaborate on ‘Affairing Down’?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know Who My Mate Really Is?
Video icon Q&A Will His Rehabilitation Set Our Recovery Back?
Video icon Q&A When Do I Determine Enough Is Enough?
Video icon Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with Seeing the Affair Partner on a Regular Basis?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Ever Get Those Holidays, That Used to Be Our Holidays, Back?
Video icon Q&A Could You Talk a Little Bit about Emotional Self-Regulation?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Past Being Stuck?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends?
Video icon Q&A Is Compatibility More Important Than Love for a Successful Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Spouse Causing This Pain Instead of Showing Empathy?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Extend Too Much Grace and Mercy?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away?
Video icon Q&A Does This Ever Completely Go Away?
Video icon Q&A Is My Husband Serious about His Personal Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand My Anger?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Move Forward in a Healthy and Safe Way?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Push Forward in Recovery When I Feel That My Mate Isn't Trust Worthy?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Decision Making during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help My Understand Why the Empathy Exercises Have Been so Difficult for My Mate?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Advice for Getting past This Roadblock in Our Recovery?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Help EMDR Be More Effective for Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Past the Shock of This?
Video icon Q&A Should We Continue with the Course Work in Spite of Relapse?
Video icon Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Behavior Reflect That I've Learned Nothing?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Truly Believes They Do Not Have a Problem or Addiction?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Reach Ground Zero If My Spouse Doesn’t Believe That I’ve Told Him Everything?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Strategy for Dealing with Lingering Details of an Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is This an Acceptable Behavior for the Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Recover from a Double Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Will My Husband Ever Stop Thinking of His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Balancing Recovery and Wanting to Be Joyful and Present at the Same Time?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Restore Intimacy after an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Encourage Behavior without Bitterness?
Video icon Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Working on Our Individual Healing and Healing the Relationship?
Video icon Q&A Did We Start Recovery Too Late after Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from Losing My Family Unit?