Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 1042 Resources Type Title Posted Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Handle the Abrupt Emotional Changes? 2/15/2017 Q&A Do You Think I'll Ever Feel Safe given These Circumstances? 2/15/2017 Q&A What can I do to Deal with His Actions Toward Me? 2/08/2017 Q&A Can I Speak to the Affair Partner in this Situation? 2/08/2017 Q&A Should I Stay for the Kids and Just Deal with His Online Struggles? 2/08/2017 Q&A Are his Recovery Steps Sufficient or is Something Missing? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can we Achieve Transparency Without me Policing my Husband? 2/08/2017 Q&A Can you Offer some Advice for Our Complex Situation? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can Our Marriage Heal When Mental Illness Prevents Rational Affair Related Conversations? 2/08/2017 Q&A Should I Actively Fight my Apathy Towards my Husband or Will it Break Down Naturally? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Effectively Set a No Touch Boundary with My Husband? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Set Boundaries Without Fear of Him Returning to the Affair Partner? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Let go of my Desire to See Him Suffer and Broken? 2/08/2017 Q&A What Should I Do as the Unfaithful When Triggers Arise? 2/02/2017 Q&A Thankful my Skeletons are All Out, But Where do I go from Here? 2/02/2017 Q&A How can I Change my Negative Thoughts Before Launching into Anger? 2/02/2017 Q&A How do Our Children and I Cope While Waiting for Him to Choose Us? 2/02/2017 Q&A How can I Stop my Victim Thinking and Take Ownership for my Issues? 1/24/2017 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Show Compassion for an Unempathetic Unfaithful Spouse? 1/24/2017 Q&A How do I Know if He is Serious About Reconciliation? 1/24/2017 Q&A How do we Respond to bad Dreams that Cause Triggers and Flooding? 1/24/2017 Q&A How do we Start an Accountability Group? 1/11/2017 Q&A How do I Function Normally in the World when I'm Actually a Sex Addict? 1/11/2017 Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him? 1/11/2017 Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying? 1/11/2017 Q&A How Can I Keep Getting Back Up? 1/11/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Use History to Confront Current Behaviors? 1/11/2017 Q&A Why is his Anger Growing and How Can I Help? 12/20/2016 Q&A When do I Say I'm Moving On? 12/20/2016 Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. Will it Get Better? 12/16/2016 Q&A Are these Requests Appropriate for me to Ask for? 12/16/2016 Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2016 Q&A How do I Handle my Wife's Lack of Empathy? 12/16/2016 Q&A How can my Wife and I Handle my Lingering Feelings for my Affair Partner? 12/16/2016 Q&A He Contacted the Affair Partner and Lied About it. What do I do? 12/07/2016 Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances? 12/07/2016 Q&A Can we Fully Recover from Her Affair Without Moving Our Family? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do you Enforce Boundaries Short of Separation or Divorce? 11/30/2016 Q&A What are the Signs to Watch for to Know a Liar has Stopped Lying? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should 12 Step Work be a Requirement for a Sex Addict Wanting to Salvage the Marriage? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for Me Being Married to a Sex Addict? 11/30/2016 Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse? 11/30/2016 Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Can You make of All This? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With 'His and Hers' Affairs? 11/30/2016 Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Concerns Should I Have at this Point in Our Recovery from His Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A What is Protocol for a Couple in this Post Affair Scenario? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should I Inform My Children of their Mother's Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A Can I Heal the Relationship With My Best Friend After Her Cheating With My Husband? 11/23/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…91011121314151617…next ›last »