Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Problem with Forgiveness 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 1094 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should My Husband Find Another Job to Protect Himself from Relapse? 9/24/2020 Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/03/2020 Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do? 9/03/2020 Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Communicate to My Spouse That Their Behavior Is Not Acceptable? 9/02/2020 Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility? 8/27/2020 Q&A My Husband Became a Bitter Person, What Should I Do? 8/27/2020 Q&A Is My Husband's Behavior Abusive? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Address This Barrier More Than I Already Have? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Would You Advise Regarding My Living Situation? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Should We React to Insensitivity? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe Again? 7/30/2020 Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself When My Vulnerability Was Abused? 7/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Spouse Get past the Anger? 7/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe When There Is No Empathy? 7/16/2020 Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Is Still Unsafe? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does? 7/09/2020 Q&A At What Point Does a Serious Case of Narcissism in the Unfaithful Need to Be Considered Unsafe for the Betrayed Spouse to Even Consider Reconciliation? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable in My Demand? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Entering Into a Contract on a New Home Early in Recovery? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Happens If a Husband and Wife Differ on What Constitutes Out of Line Behavior? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband Won't Stick to the Agreement? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward with This Feeling That I'm Not Safe? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do We Build Trust When I Don't Quite Feel Safe Yet? 6/03/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Heal When He Still Has to Have Contact with Her Because of Her Job? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Splitting the Household While Attempting Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception? 6/03/2020 Q&A Do I Stop Encouraging My Mate to Participate in Hope for Healing and Quit Communicating with Him? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband Becoming Extremely Controlling? 5/28/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Betrayed Spouse with Her Anger and Resentment? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Stay Calm While Talking about the Affair? 5/28/2020 Q&A What Is a Healthy Boundary for Alcohol in This Situation? 5/07/2020 Q&A Should the Lack of Safety Be a Deal Breaker for Recovery? 5/07/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Wife Drinks and Get so Angry? 5/07/2020 Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe? 4/28/2020 Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sex with My Mate under These Circumstances? 3/16/2020 Q&A What Can We Do When My Husband’s Only True Confidant Is a Serious Trigger for Me? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Be Authentic and Safe with My Emotions during Recovery? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors? 3/16/2020 Q&A Are Walls Instead of Boundaries Necessary for a Season? 3/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Become Safe for Someone Who Is Unsafe for Me? 3/03/2020 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
