Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Power of Small Groups Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 1075 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does? 7/09/2020 Q&A At What Point Does a Serious Case of Narcissism in the Unfaithful Need to Be Considered Unsafe for the Betrayed Spouse to Even Consider Reconciliation? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable in My Demand? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Entering Into a Contract on a New Home Early in Recovery? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Happens If a Husband and Wife Differ on What Constitutes Out of Line Behavior? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband Won't Stick to the Agreement? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward with This Feeling That I'm Not Safe? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do We Build Trust When I Don't Quite Feel Safe Yet? 6/03/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Heal When He Still Has to Have Contact with Her Because of Her Job? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Splitting the Household While Attempting Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception? 6/03/2020 Q&A Do I Stop Encouraging My Mate to Participate in Hope for Healing and Quit Communicating with Him? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband Becoming Extremely Controlling? 5/28/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Betrayed Spouse with Her Anger and Resentment? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Stay Calm While Talking about the Affair? 5/28/2020 Q&A What Is a Healthy Boundary for Alcohol in This Situation? 5/07/2020 Q&A Should the Lack of Safety Be a Deal Breaker for Recovery? 5/07/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Wife Drinks and Get so Angry? 5/07/2020 Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe? 4/28/2020 Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sex with My Mate under These Circumstances? 3/16/2020 Q&A What Can We Do When My Husband’s Only True Confidant Is a Serious Trigger for Me? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Be Authentic and Safe with My Emotions during Recovery? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors? 3/16/2020 Q&A Are Walls Instead of Boundaries Necessary for a Season? 3/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Become Safe for Someone Who Is Unsafe for Me? 3/03/2020 Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers? 2/20/2020 Q&A Is This Gaslighting? If So, How Do I Respond? 2/14/2020 Q&A Can I Heal If My Husband Is Not Completely Safe? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say? 1/31/2020 Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking? 1/31/2020 Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020 Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020 Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me? 1/03/2020 Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over? 1/03/2020 Q&A Do I Continue to Be Friends? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Create Safety in the Workplace? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared? 12/19/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019 Q&A What Does Consensual Sex Look like in Marriage? 12/05/2019 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
