All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 5038 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Could There Really Be Such a Thing as a Midlife Crisis Affair? 3/09/2021 Q&A How Do We Move on with Long Standing Resentments? 3/09/2021 Q&A What Is My Husband's Addiction? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Is She Ambivalent about If There Was No Emotional Attachment to the Affair Partner? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is There a Video on the “Do's and Don'ts” for Helping Someone Who Is Suffering While Going through the Trauma of Infidelity? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Might Be a Better Way to Deal with My Pain? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle My Reaction in This Situation? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Steps Can I Take to Learn to Trust Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is His Inability to Recall Details of the Affair Normal? 3/04/2021 Q&A Could Postpartum Depression Lead to an Affair? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is My Spouse's Attitude Preventing Limerence from Fading? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Shame over My Husband's Thoughts? 3/04/2021 Q&A Can I Ever Feel Love Again for Her If I'm Feeling Trapped in This Marriage? 3/04/2021 Q&A Can Cuddling with His Roommate Be Platonic? 3/04/2021 Q&A Can You Go into More Detail about the 'Lonely Hearts Club' Affair? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair? 3/04/2021 Q&A Should I Ask about All the Media and Locations They Shared? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Am I So Afraid to Be Happy? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for the Ways I Reacted as the Betrayed? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is Being Immature or a Pastors Kid a Legitimate Reason for Making This Mistake? 3/04/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Is My Ex-Husband Now Playing the Victim? 3/04/2021 Q&A Could My Husband Be Done with Recovery? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Is Attacking Classified As? 2/23/2021 Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed? 2/23/2021 Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship? 2/11/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021 Q&A Is It Normal for an Unfaithful Spouse Get Upset Whenever Asked to Talk about the Inappropriate Behavior? 1/28/2021 Q&A Am I Abnormal for Struggling with Healing? 1/28/2021 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Reclaiming Things Associated with the Affair? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Can I Remain Supportive and Loving While Also Protecting Myself? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information? 1/28/2021 Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Three Stages of Love? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Conflict inside of Me? 1/25/2021 Q&A How Soon Is Too Soon to Let Yourself Forgive, Hope, and Rebuild? 1/25/2021 Q&A What Happens If I or Both My Husband and I Run into the Affair Partner in Public? 1/25/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest? 1/20/2021 Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Seeking the ‘20% Guy’? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries? 1/20/2021 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Heal When I'm Sharing My Wife with a Coworker? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Regain Sexual Attraction to My Husband? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship? 1/20/2021 Q&A What Should I Do with the Evidence? 1/20/2021 Q&A Why Did the Wayward Spouse Want to Reconcile, but Is Now in a Relationship with His Affair Partner Post-Divorce? 1/20/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021…next ›last »