Why They Did It
The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty.
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Video Q&A Is There a Difference between Reason and Justification? 5/28/2020
Video Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery? 4/02/2020
Video Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane? 3/19/2020
Video Q&A Do Serious Health Issues Impact a Spouses Decision to Have an Affair? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault? 3/10/2020
Video Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity? 3/03/2020
Video Q&A Does It Matter If Someone Forced His Hand on Their Breast or It His Did It on His Own? 2/20/2020
Video Q&A What Might Be the Reasons for My Ex-Wife's Relational Pattern? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Gain a Better Perspective on What I've Done? 12/05/2019
Video Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Truly Believes They Do Not Have a Problem or Addiction? 11/13/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation? 11/06/2019
Video Q&A Why Did My Mate Take the Affair Partner to the Same Places He Has Taken Me? 10/16/2019
Video Q&A Did My Spouse Affair Down? 9/26/2019
Video Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair? 9/04/2019
Video Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them? 8/28/2019
Video Q&A How Does Sexual Imprinting in a Women during Her Teenage Years Impact Her Desire to Be Intimate in a Marriage Compared to with an Affair Partner? 8/23/2019
Video Q&A Is My Husband's Argument Right? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Do You Agree with My Counselor? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Where Did the Weakness to Have an Affair Come From? 8/20/2019
Video Q&A Is His Guilt Truly about the Affair or about Being Caught? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Am I Using the Affair Partners Choices as a Cop-Out? 7/17/2019
Video Q&A How Can My Mate Prefer Anything about the Affair Partner? 7/03/2019
Video Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to See the Affair Partner One Last Time? 7/03/2019
Video Q&A Did God Really Lead My Spouse to Have an Affair? 6/19/2019
Video Q&A Are My Mates Actions a Result of Poor Self Esteem? 6/11/2019
Video Q&A Why Did My Mate Take So Many Photos of the Affair Partners? 5/21/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward If My Mate Won't Admit What Happened? 5/15/2019
Video Q&A Could These Be Contributing Factors to My Husband's Acting Out? 5/08/2019
Video Q&A Why Can't My Husband Face That This Was an Affair? 5/08/2019
Video Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to Stay Committed to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019
Video Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed End up Having Revenge Affairs? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A Is This Relationship worth Keeping? 4/17/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This? 4/17/2019
Video Q&A Is Anxiety a Valid Reason to Leave a Marriage? 4/10/2019
Video Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Continuing to Justify Their Actions? 4/10/2019
Video Q&A Is an Obsession with Beauty Part of a Deeper Problem? 3/13/2019
Video Q&A How Much Blame Can We Assign to the Affair Partner? 3/13/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Believe That My Mate Really Loved Me during Their Affair? 3/06/2019
Video Q&A Did My Trust Contribute to the Infidelity? 2/20/2019
Video Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Questioning My Fidelity? 2/20/2019
Video Q&A Is My Spouse a Good Person in Spite of the Infidelity? 2/20/2019
Text Why People Cheat: Justifications of the Unfaithful (Part 3) 2/20/2019
Video Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Trouble Facing This? 2/06/2019
Video Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair? 1/30/2019
Video Q&A Why Is the 'Why' Often Never Fully Discovered? 1/09/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Affairs? 11/26/2018
Video Q&A How Does Depression Affect Infidelity and Recovery? 11/01/2018
Video Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me? 11/01/2018

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