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283 Resources
Type Title Posted
Text Am I Who They Want? 10/19/2022
Text Were They Thinking of Me? 10/12/2022
Text The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022
Text Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022
Text Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 9/21/2022
Text The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 9/14/2022
Text Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022
Text Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 8/31/2022
Text The Fantasyland of an Affair 8/24/2022
Text Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022
Text Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022
Text Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022
Text Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 7/27/2022
Text Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 7/20/2022
Text What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022
Text Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022
Text Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 6/29/2022
Video How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022
Text Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022
Text Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022
Text Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022
Text Wanting to Be Wanted 5/04/2022
Video Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 4/27/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs: Love Addiction 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs: Emotional Affair 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs: Wanting the Marriage and the Affair 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs: Sexual Addiction 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs: Fallen in Love 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs: One-Night Stand 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs 4/06/2022
Text How to Prevent Relapse: Healing After an Affair 3/30/2022
Video What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022
Video Announcing NEW Infidelity Video Blog: Songs for the Soul 1/26/2022
Text Social Shame: Four Ways to Stay In It 12/13/2021
Text Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021
Text Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021
Text Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021
Video The Use and Abuse of the Polygraph 11/10/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021
Text Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 2: The Art of Cherishing 9/15/2021
Text Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage 9/08/2021
Text Mastering Marriage Part 2: Practicing the Process of Marriage and Recovery 8/25/2021
Text Mastering Marriage Part 1: Interpreting Plateaus in Marriage and Recovery 8/18/2021

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