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Video Hope During the COVID-19 Crisis ...and our favorite memes 3/30/2020
Text The Fantasyland of an Affair 3/25/2020
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 3/18/2020
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 3/11/2020
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 2 - Not Getting It 3/4/2020
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 2/26/2020
Text Lessons Learned 2/19/2020
Text Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 2/12/2020
Text How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 2/5/2020
Text How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 1/29/2020
Text How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 1/22/2020
Text How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification 1/15/2020
Text How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 1/7/2020
Text How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 1/1/2020
Text Surviving the Holidays: 7 Tips 12/18/2019
Video How Do I Forget the Affair Partner? 12/11/2019
Text 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 3 12/4/2019
Text 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 2 11/26/2019
Text 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 11/20/2019
Text Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019
Text Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/6/2019
Text Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019
Text Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019
Text Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019
Text What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 10/9/2019
Text Anger: Its 6 Roots 10/2/2019
Text Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 9/25/2019
Text Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 9/18/2019
Text Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 9/11/2019
Text Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 9/4/2019
Text The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 8/28/2019
Text Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work. 8/21/2019
Text How to Find Answers 8/14/2019
Text Trauma and Infidelity 8/7/2019
Text Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving 7/31/2019
Text Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 7/24/2019
Text Is There Hope After Infidelity? 7/17/2019
Text Hope Rising 2019: Conference for Betrayed Spouses 7/9/2019
Text What is Healing? 7/3/2019
Text Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019
Text The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 6/19/2019
Text A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past 6/12/2019
Text Are They Lying About "Why?" 6/5/2019
Text How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/29/2019
Text The Paralysis of Ambivalence: Part 2 5/22/2019
Text The Paralysis of Ambivalence: Part 1 5/15/2019
Text Social Shame: Four Ways to Stay In It 5/8/2019
Text Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 5/1/2019
Text Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 4/24/2019
Text Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 4/17/2019