Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How to Survive Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? 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Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 3938 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Get Our Strong Emotional Connection Back? 9/11/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If I'm Making the Right Choice? 9/11/2019 Q&A Should We Stop the Trickle Effect of Disclosure? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal When I Am Always in Fight or Flight Mode? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Accept What My Mate Is Telling Me? 9/04/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Long Will It Take for Feelings for the Affair Partner to Disappear? 9/04/2019 Q&A Are the Gottmans Encouraging Infidelity? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Protect My Children through All of This? 8/28/2019 Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Covert Narcissism? 8/28/2019 Q&A What Is a Normal Reaction from the Wayward When Discovering Infidelity? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them? 8/28/2019 Q&A Why Do I Do about My Thoughts during Sex? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Get past My Own Shame and Guilt? 8/28/2019 Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Is an Addict? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Is This Not about Me? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Know When to Stand up and Say Enough Is Enough? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Much Does Childhood Abandonment Affect Recovery from Infidelity? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Get past My Husband's Recreated Fantasy about a High School Girlfriend? 8/28/2019 Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process? 8/28/2019 Q&A Is Her Disgust about the Affair a Sign That the Limerence Is Disappearing? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Can I Know If What I Experienced with the Affair Partner Was Love, Limerence, or Love Addiction? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Should the Wayward Spouse Respond to New Discoveries by the Betrayed Spouse? 8/28/2019 Q&A Does It Matter If He Says It Was Love & I Say It Was Limerance? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019 Q&A Did I Try to Recover to Quickly? 8/28/2019 Q&A What Does True Recovery Work and Change Look Like? 8/28/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Restore the Marriage If the Wayward Spouse Wants Divorce? 8/28/2019 Q&A Can You Further Explain the Deceived-Self and the True-Self? 8/28/2019 Q&A Should We Wait for the Limerence to Subside before Seeking More Restoration? 8/28/2019 Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘My Mate Is Not the Problem, My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward and Heal? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is It Possible for My Wayward Spouse to Accept Unconditional Love? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is There Still Hope for Our Marriage? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Can I Convince My Spouse That I've Disclosed All of the Details? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is My Spouse Being Truthful with Me? 8/23/2019 Q&A Why Is It Always on Me to Set Boundaries? 8/23/2019 Q&A What Resources Do You Recommend upon Finishing the Aftercare Program? 8/23/2019 Q&A Do We Tell Our Son about the Affair? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle the Betrayal by My Mate’s College Aged Daughter? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is My Spouse Showing a Lack of Trustworthiness? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Do You Heal When the Wayward Spouse Cannot Recall the Details That You Need? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Much Time Do I Need to Give My Mate to Heal? 8/23/2019 Q&A Has My Spouse Replaced One Addiction for Another? 8/23/2019 Q&A At What Point Do I Give Up? 8/23/2019 Q&A Why Am I Still Hurting? 8/23/2019 Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To? 8/23/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…242526272829303132…next ›last »