All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Q&A Is This Level of Detail Healthy for Recovery? 10/23/2019 Q&A What More Can We Do to Set Boundaries with Family Members? 10/23/2019 Q&A Do You Recommend That I Try to Convince My Mate to Push through Our Healing and Recovery? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome This Sexual Trigger? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle Divorce When the Affair Partner Intentionally Got Pregnant? 10/23/2019 Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do We Restore Our Relationship with Our Children? 10/23/2019 Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive? 10/23/2019 Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Navigating Though EMS Online and Harboring Hope Simultaneously? 10/16/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Take the Affair Partner to the Same Places He Has Taken Me? 10/16/2019 Q&A Do My Sexual Dreams Indicate a Deeper Underlying Problem? 10/16/2019 Q&A Is My Social Anxiety Normal at This Stage of Recovery? 10/16/2019 Q&A At What Point Should We Get a Restraining Order for the Affair Partner? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Vulnerable If My Mate Has Only Committed to One Year of Healing? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal, Recover, and Prevent Relapse? 10/16/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Fully Understand My Mate's Pain? 10/16/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Problems That Occur Late at Night? 10/02/2019 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Diminishing or Ceasing Anxiety Attacks? 10/02/2019 Q&A Does This Ever Completely Go Away? 10/02/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Changing How I View Myself Physically? 10/02/2019 Q&A Can You Offer Encouragement for Me? 10/02/2019 Q&A Is There a Difference between Long-Term and Short-Term Affairs? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Do I Show My Wife I Get It? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Can We Move Forward with This Lack of Trust? 10/02/2019 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husband's Lack of Transparency? 10/02/2019 Q&A Should I Allow My Husband to Choose His Polygrapher? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Being Honest When Discussing the Affair Partner? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing I May Never Have Fulfilling Physical Intimacy with My Wife? 9/26/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing from Suicide after Disclosure? 9/26/2019 Q&A Is It Best to Just Keep Information about the Infidelity between the Two of Us? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Can We Restore Our Relationship with Our Children? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Break Their Destructive Cycle? 9/26/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Husband Able to Be Vulnerable with Other Men? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Sex Addict Husband Pouting Because I Do Not Want to Have Sex with Him? 9/26/2019 Q&A Can Sex during Recovery Have an Adverse Effect on Our Healing? 9/26/2019 Q&A Does Every Man Masturbate like This? 9/26/2019 Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage in This Circumstance? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe through All of This? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage the Losses of Everything My Husband Gave Away? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Will I Know If It's Safe for My Spouse to Move Back in with Me? 9/26/2019 Q&A Do I Need to Have My Mate Move Out? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe about My Husband Having Female Friends at Work? 9/26/2019 Q&A Is My Situation a Common One? 9/26/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…262728293031323334…next ›last »