All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 4990 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Handle the Affair Partner's Continued Intrusion in Our Life? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Dependence on My Mates Affirmation? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to Stay Committed to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019 Q&A Can Depression Adversely Effect the Recovery Process? 5/08/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose the AP's Personal Information to Our Mate? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Is My Mate Shifting the Blame to Me? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Believe My Mate? 5/08/2019 Q&A Have I Made a 'Deal Breaker' Decision? 4/30/2019 Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe with Multiple Online Accounts? 4/30/2019 Q&A Should We Stay in the Marriage for the Kids? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Are Healthy Ways for the Wayward to Grieve Losing the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person? 4/30/2019 Q&A If We Married for the Wrong Reason Should the Marriage Be Saved? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe from Another Relapse? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed End up Having Revenge Affairs? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Happens If I'm Not Seeing Remorse? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Get Complete Disclosure on How Deep This Sex Addiction Goes? 4/30/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Spouse Pursuing Me? 4/30/2019 Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions? 4/30/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Recovery Timeline? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Recover from an Abusive Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A Am I Being to Harsh with My Wayward Husband? 4/30/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Grow Distant Again? 4/17/2019 Q&A Could the Marriage Have Gotten Better Even While My Mate Is Acting Out? 4/17/2019 Q&A Is This Relationship worth Keeping? 4/17/2019 Q&A Is It Time to Walk Away? 4/17/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set for Transparency? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Do You Address Your Wounds While at the Same Time Feeling Remorse for Your Mate? 4/17/2019 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Mean When They Say They Need the Wayward to Help Them Heal? 4/12/2019 Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries When Children Are Involved? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do You Know When You're Done? 4/10/2019 Q&A Are My Expectations Reasonable? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband That It Is Time to Tell Our Son? 4/10/2019 Q&A When Do You Give up on the Marriage? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is My Husband in a Phase-Two Affair? 4/10/2019 Q&A Should We Attend EMS Weekend If Our Divorce Is Pending? 4/10/2019 Q&A What Should I Do? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Stay with Someone Who Hasn't Fully Disclosed the Affair? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is This Marriage worth Fighting For? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is the Recovery Timeline Different for Those Who Divorce after Infidelity? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is Anxiety a Valid Reason to Leave a Marriage? 4/10/2019 Q&A Why Am I Struggling with Compassion and Understanding? 4/10/2019 Q&A Am I Deceiving Myself? 4/10/2019 Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Continuing to Justify Their Actions? 4/10/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…333435363738394041…next ›last »
