All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Power of Small Groups Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? 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How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 4990 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Process Grief? 1/23/2019 Q&A Is It Okay to Ask for 90 Days of Abstinence? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Begin to Heal If My Mate Isn't Putting in Effort? 1/23/2019 Q&A Why Has Our Recovery Journey Been so Different? 1/23/2019 Q&A Should I Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 1/23/2019 Q&A Is My Mate Doing Enough to Heal and Be Safe? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Apply Boundaries and Reconcile? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Can I Make Disclosure Safe? 1/23/2019 Q&A Will Our Recovery Process Be Different from General Infidelity? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle a Fetish That Causes Triggers? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do We Get to Full Disclosure? 1/23/2019 Q&A Are Affairs Early in Marriage More Damaging? 1/23/2019 Q&A When Is Enough Enough? 1/23/2019 Q&A Should I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Was a Close Friend? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Change My Thinking? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Fall in Love with Me Again? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate with Discovery? 1/22/2019 Q&A Is My Betrayed Wife's Behavior Normal? 1/22/2019 Q&A Should My Wayward Spouse Find a New Career to Create Safety? 1/22/2019 Q&A Did I Make a Mistake in Ending the Marriage? 1/22/2019 Q&A Should We Continue with the After-Care Program for the Rest of Our Lives? 1/22/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set around Our Emotions? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward from This? 1/22/2019 Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Mates Triggers? 1/16/2019 Q&A How Important Is It to Deal with All Betrayals Whether before or after Marriage? 1/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Love Again for the Wayward Spouse? 1/16/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Pursuing Me? 1/16/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose Details about past Partners? 1/16/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance? 1/16/2019 Q&A Do I Save Myself or Save the Marriage? 1/16/2019 A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019 Q&A How Can We Reconnect While Living Apart? 1/09/2019 Q&A Have We Both Betrayed Each Other? 1/09/2019 Q&A Do You Have Resources to Help with Connection? 1/09/2019 Q&A When Should a Betrayed Spouse Stop Pushing for Answers to Questions? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We Manage Safe Boundaries with a Child from the Affair? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We End Our Separation? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with Comparison to the Affair Partner? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Husband Interested in Me Sexually? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Continue to Attempt Contact? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Balance Processing Everything without Becoming Overwhelmed with It? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Secondary Issues and Address the Infidelity? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Can I Regain Trust after so Much Deception? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Same-Sex Infidelity? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Is the 'Why' Often Never Fully Discovered? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Anonymity Is a Requirement in 12 Step Programs? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Jealousy? 1/09/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…373839404142434445…next ›last »