For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Problem with Forgiveness Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How to Survive Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 1206 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Overcome the Reoccurring Reminders? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for the Wayward to Fight for the Marriage? 4/03/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Okay in My Own Skin Again? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Visit Certain Places without Being Triggered? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If I Can Trust My Own Judgement? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Long Will the Triggers Continue? 3/20/2019 Q&A Why Am I so Concerned About the Affair Partner? 3/20/2019 Q&A Is This Blame Shifting? 3/20/2019 Q&A Should I Try to Make Amends for My Part in the Failed Recovery? 3/13/2019 Q&A Why Is My Resentment Growing? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Believe That My Mate Really Loved Me during Their Affair? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Get past the Hurtful Words Said by the Wayward Spouse? 3/04/2019 How Does the Betrayed Spouse Grieve Properly? 2/27/2019 Q&A How Can I Cleanse My Body and Heart? 2/22/2019 Q&A Am I Stuck? 2/20/2019 Q&A What Am I Dealing with When It Comes to My Wayward Spouse? 2/20/2019 Q&A Did My Trust Contribute to the Infidelity? 2/20/2019 Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Questioning My Fidelity? 2/20/2019 Q&A Is My Mate Still in Limerence? 2/20/2019 Q&A Am I a Hypocrite for Staying? 2/13/2019 Q&A Why Is the Timeline of the Affair so Important to Me? 2/13/2019 Q&A Why Does My Husband Use Distraction and Blame to Get Himself out of Owning What He’s Done? 1/30/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Know He Really Wants Me and to Save Our Marriage and Not Just Save His Image? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal When Time Has Been Taken from Me? 1/28/2019 Q&A Is There Any Reason to Still Be Here? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Love Again for the Wayward Spouse? 1/16/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Pursuing Me? 1/16/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance? 1/16/2019 Q&A Do I Save Myself or Save the Marriage? 1/16/2019 A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with Comparison to the Affair Partner? 1/09/2019 Q&A Am I Expecting too Much? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Know I'm Not Paranoid? 11/28/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Mate That Their Affair Partner Tried to Contact Them? 11/28/2018 Q&A What Happens When the Wayward Refuses to Get Help? 11/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Confront My Mate about Their Porn Use? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Understand What They've Done? 11/07/2018 Q&A Am I Shaming My Husband When I Bring up His past Behaviors? 11/07/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Deal with Ambivalence? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Live with a Spouse That Is Grieving the Affair Partner? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 11/01/2018 Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me? 11/01/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Q&A Is It Useful to Think about What Could've Happened? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Has My Mate Broken My Trust Again? 10/23/2018 Q&A Should We Continue with EMSO If My Mate Won't Break Contact With the Affair Partner? 10/23/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…111213141516171819…next ›last »
