For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 1230 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A It Seems My Husband Is More Worried About His Self-Image Than Actually Healing, What Do I Do? 4/13/2021 Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe? 4/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner? 3/25/2021 Q&A Am I Being Manipulated Again or Does He Truly Feel This Way? 3/25/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Q&A Am I Wasting My Time Hoping He Can Truly Change? 3/22/2021 Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Tell Adult Children about Their Mother's Affair? 3/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle the Mixed Messages I'm Receiving from My Ex-fiancé? 3/22/2021 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon, How Long Does It Take to Start to See That Coming Back? 3/18/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage? 3/18/2021 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust? 3/11/2021 Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage? 3/11/2021 Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past? 3/11/2021 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence? 3/09/2021 Q&A Am I Being Unrealistic for Wanting to Have a More Loving, Satisfying, Sex Life after Infidelity? 3/09/2021 Q&A Is It Alright for Me Not to Confront My Husband about Breaching the Contract? 3/09/2021 Q&A Why Do I Want to Indulge in Thoughts of the Other Women? 3/09/2021 Q&A What Is My Husband's Addiction? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Is She Ambivalent about If There Was No Emotional Attachment to the Affair Partner? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Might Be a Better Way to Deal with My Pain? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Steps Can I Take to Learn to Trust Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is His Inability to Recall Details of the Affair Normal? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is My Spouse's Attitude Preventing Limerence from Fading? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Shame over My Husband's Thoughts? 3/04/2021 Q&A Can I Ever Feel Love Again for Her If I'm Feeling Trapped in This Marriage? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair? 3/04/2021 Q&A Should I Ask about All the Media and Locations They Shared? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Am I So Afraid to Be Happy? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for the Ways I Reacted as the Betrayed? 3/04/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Is My Ex-Husband Now Playing the Victim? 3/04/2021 Q&A Could My Husband Be Done with Recovery? 3/04/2021 Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021 Q&A Is It Normal for an Unfaithful Spouse Get Upset Whenever Asked to Talk about the Inappropriate Behavior? 1/28/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest? 1/20/2021 Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Seeking the ‘20% Guy’? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries? 1/20/2021 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Heal When I'm Sharing My Wife with a Coworker? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Regain Sexual Attraction to My Husband? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship? 1/20/2021 Q&A What Should I Do with the Evidence? 1/20/2021 Q&A Why Did the Wayward Spouse Want to Reconcile, but Is Now in a Relationship with His Affair Partner Post-Divorce? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle This Lapse in Motherhood When I’ve Been Needed? 1/20/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…34567891011…next ›last »
