Q&A At What Point Is It Unhealthy to Be Avoiding Events Because the Affair Partner May Go or Avoiding Places Because They Once Went There Together? 12/17/2021
Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021
Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021
Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021
Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Playing the Victim in Our Relationship? 11/19/2021
Q&A Can His Expressed Feelings of Love Be True When He Was Deceiving and Betraying Me? 11/19/2021
Q&A How Much Should I Allow My Hurt Spouse to Vent and Control Conversations? 11/19/2021
Q&A What Can I Ask My Spouse to Do That Also Requires the Same Amount of Effort in the Process of Recovery? 11/19/2021
Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Make a Symbolic Sacrifice to Help My Healing? 11/04/2021
Q&A What Type of Dilemma Am I In? 11/04/2021
Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021
Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021
Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021
Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021
Q&A Is He Sincere? 10/07/2021
Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Not Only Acknowledge the Humiliation upon Our Family and Me, but Also to Fix the Amount of Humiliation He’s Placed on Our Family to Our Town? 10/07/2021
Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Go Back to the Affair Partner? 10/07/2021
Q&A Did I Do the Right Thing by Sharing My Trigger and How Do I Handle This Situation in the Future? 10/07/2021
Q&A Why Is My Husband Deleting Messages to His Mother before I See Them? 10/07/2021
Q&A What Do I Do about a Sex Tape That My Spouse Made with the Affair Partner? 9/08/2021
Q&A How Do I Move On When I Feel like He’s Lying about What Really Happened? 9/08/2021
Q&A Should I do EMDR or Harboring Hope First? 9/08/2021
Q&A Where Do I Go After EMS Online? 8/17/2021
Q&A Should I Let Him Go? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Could He Go from Begging Me to Stay to This? 8/17/2021
Q&A Is It Possible That the Shame Is Creating a Barrier to Empathy? 8/17/2021
Q&A Why Does This Hurt Me? 8/17/2021
Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do I Handle This Conflict between What He’s Saying and What He’s Doing? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do I Deal With This When I Cannot Reasonably Ask Her to Quit Working nor Can I Check In Frequently to Make Sure It's Not Happening Again? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do I Handle Other Counselor’s ‘Okaying’ My Husband’s Continuation of His Rock-Concert Gigs? 8/17/2021
Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair? 8/17/2021
Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair? 8/02/2021
Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner? 8/02/2021
Q&A How Can I Now Be the Bad Guy? 7/13/2021
Q&A Do You Advise Me to Have a Session with My Psychologist, Family, And Friends to Discuss the Things He Has Said About Me? 7/13/2021
Q&A Should I Share the Date I Have Set For Making a Decision with My Husband? 7/13/2021
Q&A Is Keeping Him from Moving Home Making Things Worse? 7/13/2021
Q&A How Do I Handle My Healing and My Husband? 7/13/2021
Q&A Why Did My Husband Have Such a Seemingly Lame Affair? 7/13/2021
Q&A Is Location-Sharing and Access to Phones Recommended? 7/13/2021
Q&A How Do I Deal With His Advice without Feeling He Is Criticizing Me? 7/13/2021
Q&A How Can I Stop the Feeling That I Constantly Need to Check on My Wayward Spouse for Safety? 7/13/2021
Q&A How Best Do I Ask for This Information So That He Understands the Level of Transparency I Need to Feel Safe? 7/13/2021
Q&A How Do I Deal With the Physical Distance between Me and My Husband during Recovery? 7/13/2021
Q&A My Husband Wants to Know Why I Haven't Heard from a Betrayed Woman Who Is Still Married to Her Wayward Spouse? 7/13/2021
Q&A Do I Sell My House with My Unfaithful Spouse in It? 7/13/2021
Q&A Do I Let Go of My Attachment to Her Now or Wait until Our Courses Are Complete? 7/13/2021
Q&A Do You Have Any Insights into My Wayward Spouse's Line of Thinking? 7/08/2021
