For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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Video Q&A Could My Husband Be Done with Recovery? 3/04/2021
Video Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed? 2/23/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life? 2/11/2021
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021
Video Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021
Video Q&A Is It Normal for an Unfaithful Spouse Get Upset Whenever Asked to Talk about the Inappropriate Behavior? 1/28/2021
Video Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021
Video Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Stop Seeking the ‘20% Guy’? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Heal When I'm Sharing My Wife with a Coworker? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Regain Sexual Attraction to My Husband? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A What Should I Do with the Evidence? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A Why Did the Wayward Spouse Want to Reconcile, but Is Now in a Relationship with His Affair Partner Post-Divorce? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Handle This Lapse in Motherhood When I’ve Been Needed? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Stay in a Marriage with My Husband Who Won't Open up with Me? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A Can We Heal Even When He Still Can’t Give Me a Full Account of His Affair? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Memories Pure and Special Again? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘Don't Rebuild Your Old Marriage. You Must Build Something New’? 1/07/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Handle In-Laws? 1/07/2021
Video Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage? 1/07/2021
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Move Forward in My Relationship with My Husband? 1/07/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A How Probable It Is That He Can Stop Cheating and Have a Normal Sex Life? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A As the Betrayed, How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband's Refusal to Consider Accountability? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Why Did My Wayward Husband Share Our Children’s Lives with the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A I'm the Hurt Partner and I'm Extremely Codependent, Now What? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband's Needs Are a Trigger for Me? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Would Her Medication Have Created the Same Brain Chemicals as Limerence? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure? 12/17/2020
Text The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020
Video Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break? 11/24/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Could You Help? 11/18/2020

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