Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long?
Video icon Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love?
Video icon Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me?
Video icon Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded?
Video icon Q&A What Would Be Best for His Healing and Our Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Begin to Sift through the Wreckage after an Affair and Determine the Value of What Was Lost?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Not Love or Miss Someone after a 3-Year Affair?
Video icon Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A What If I Question Whether I Want to Be Married or Not?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A At This Point I Just Rather Not Have Sex at All. Is There Something That I Can Do to Change This?
Video icon Q&A Should My Husband Contact the Affair Partner to Break Things off If They Haven’t Had Contact in Almost a Year?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Navigate Seeing the Emotional Part of the Affair Differently?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work?
Video icon Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives?
Video icon Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family?
Video icon Q&A How Did ADHD and Other Factors Like Depression and Anxiety Contribute to My Affairs?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend?
Video icon Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do?
Video icon Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Shame and Hurt?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When My Spouse Is Making Me Choose between Her and My Faith?
Video icon Q&A How Does One Find a Reputable and Affordable Polygraph Test Provider?
Video icon Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him?
Video icon Q&A What If the Only Way I Can Heal Is without Horizontal Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think My Spouse Is Being Honest about Why They Stayed in the Affair for So Long?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Utilize EMS Online since We Have Both Been Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A What Type of Affair Is This?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can Someone Who Has Become Such an Accomplished Liar Prove to the Betrayed Spouse That They Can Be Trusted?