Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A At This Point I Just Rather Not Have Sex at All. Is There Something That I Can Do to Change This?
Video icon Q&A Should My Husband Contact the Affair Partner to Break Things off If They Haven’t Had Contact in Almost a Year?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Navigate Seeing the Emotional Part of the Affair Differently?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work?
Video icon Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives?
Video icon Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family?
Video icon Q&A How Did ADHD and Other Factors Like Depression and Anxiety Contribute to My Affairs?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend?
Video icon Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do?
Video icon Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Shame and Hurt?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When My Spouse Is Making Me Choose between Her and My Faith?
Video icon Q&A How Does One Find a Reputable and Affordable Polygraph Test Provider?
Video icon Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him?
Video icon Q&A What If the Only Way I Can Heal Is without Horizontal Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think My Spouse Is Being Honest about Why They Stayed in the Affair for So Long?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Utilize EMS Online since We Have Both Been Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A What Type of Affair Is This?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can Someone Who Has Become Such an Accomplished Liar Prove to the Betrayed Spouse That They Can Be Trusted?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible for the Individual to Find Healing and Purpose Even If the Marriage Doesn’t Survive?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle a Paternity Test for a Child Born Years Ago?
Video icon Q&A Does My Husband’s Sexual Performance Indicate a Serious Issue?
Video icon Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse’s Siblings?
Video icon Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me?
Video icon Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women?
Video icon Q&A Does My Mate Have a Sexual Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line?
Video icon Q&A How Do Social Engagement and Our Nervous Systems Work Together?