Q&A Recovery Library

4064 Resources
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Video icon Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries?
Video icon Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets?
Video icon Q&A At What Point Do You Give up on Your Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Grace without Being Taken Advantage Of?
Video icon Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Can I Ever Get Passed Sharing My Daughter with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Keep These Triggers from Impacting Me so Much?
Video icon Q&A Are There Differences in Recovery Based on When Discovery Happens?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Recover Hope for Something New?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stay Safe When My Mate Is Still Ambivalent?
Video icon Q&A Can Minimizing Childhood Trauma Affect the Ability to Take Responsibility and Show Empathy during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me?
Video icon Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit?
Video icon Q&A How Long Will It Take for My Husband to Retrain His Thinking?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Overcome My Negative Feelings Towards Family Members?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety and Follow-Through with Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do When the Infidelity Involves Family Members?
Video icon Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean?
Video icon Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This?
Video icon Q&A Can You Explain the Benefits of an In-House Separation?
Video icon Q&A Should the Betrayed Spouse Inform the Affair Partners Spouse of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Any Advice for the Spouse of Someone Who's Been Autonomous for Nearly 20 Years in Addition to Being Passive Aggressive?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Such a Difficult Time Letting Go of the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Get Our Strong Emotional Connection Back?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know If I'm Making the Right Choice?
Video icon Q&A Should We Stop the Trickle Effect of Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal When I Am Always in Fight or Flight Mode?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Accept What My Mate Is Telling Me?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Long Will It Take for Feelings for the Affair Partner to Disappear?
Video icon Q&A Are the Gottmans Encouraging Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect My Children through All of This?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Covert Narcissism?
Video icon Q&A What Is a Normal Reaction from the Wayward When Discovering Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Do about My Thoughts during Sex?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past My Own Shame and Guilt?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Is an Addict?
Video icon Q&A How Is This Not about Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know When to Stand up and Say Enough Is Enough?
Video icon Q&A How Much Does Childhood Abandonment Affect Recovery from Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past My Husband's Recreated Fantasy about a High School Girlfriend?
Video icon Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A Is Her Disgust about the Affair a Sign That the Limerence Is Disappearing?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Know If What I Experienced with the Affair Partner Was Love, Limerence, or Love Addiction?