Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 3921 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Important Is It to Deal with All Betrayals Whether before or after Marriage? 1/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Love Again for the Wayward Spouse? 1/16/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Pursuing Me? 1/16/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose Details about past Partners? 1/16/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance? 1/16/2019 Q&A Do I Save Myself or Save the Marriage? 1/16/2019 Q&A How Can We Reconnect While Living Apart? 1/09/2019 Q&A Have We Both Betrayed Each Other? 1/09/2019 Q&A Do You Have Resources to Help with Connection? 1/09/2019 Q&A When Should a Betrayed Spouse Stop Pushing for Answers to Questions? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We Manage Safe Boundaries with a Child from the Affair? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We End Our Separation? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with Comparison to the Affair Partner? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Husband Interested in Me Sexually? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Continue to Attempt Contact? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Balance Processing Everything without Becoming Overwhelmed with It? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Secondary Issues and Address the Infidelity? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Can I Regain Trust after so Much Deception? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Same-Sex Infidelity? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Is the 'Why' Often Never Fully Discovered? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Anonymity Is a Requirement in 12 Step Programs? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Jealousy? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle New Details That I Remember? 1/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Explain the Difference between Being Faithful to Your Spouse and Unmet Sexual Expectations? 1/03/2019 Q&A What Should Our Next Step in Recovery Be? 1/03/2019 Q&A Why Do I Feel so Attacked When My Wife Brings up My past Infidelity? 1/03/2019 Q&A How Do You Grieve? 1/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal My Self-Esteem? 1/03/2019 Q&A How Can We Make Our Intimacy Special Again? 1/03/2019 Q&A How Can We Overcome This Lack of Transparency? 1/03/2019 Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Cope with This Trauma? 1/03/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Give Our Marriage Another Chance? 12/14/2018 Q&A Why Have I Chosen Destructive Relationships in the Past? 12/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Find the Motivation and Strength to Continue Trying When My Mate Is Stuck in Anger and Rage? 12/14/2018 Q&A How Should the Betrayed Handle Multiple Discovery Days? 12/14/2018 Q&A What If I Don’t Feel Guilty? 12/14/2018 Q&A What Is the Next Step for Me? 12/14/2018 Q&A Do I Just Need More Time to Grieve? 12/14/2018 Q&A Is Mentoring Another Form of Pimping? 12/14/2018 Q&A How Common Is It for Financial Devastation to Accompany Infidelity? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Prepare for My Mates Polygraph Results? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Help Our Son Heal from the Infidelity? 12/12/2018 Q&A Am I Expecting too Much? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Quit Worrying about Our Sexual Relationship? 12/12/2018 Q&A Should I Insist or Let It Go? 12/12/2018 Q&A Do You Have Any Recommendations to Help Pastors with Understanding How Infidelity Affects Us? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with Continued Fantasy Thinking? 12/12/2018 Q&A Is This Normal or Is This a Sign of Unforgiveness? 12/12/2018 Q&A Is ‘Rubber Necking’ or Blatant Attention to Other Flirtatious Women Part of Infidelity? 12/12/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…333435363738394041…next ›last »