Why They Did It

The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty.

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Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse a Good Person in Spite of the Infidelity?
Text icon Why do People Cheat? How do People Justify Having an Affair
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Trouble Facing This?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Why Is the 'Why' Often Never Fully Discovered?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Affairs?
Video icon Q&A How Does Depression Affect Infidelity and Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me?
Video icon Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What I'm Dealing With?
Video icon Q&A Why Is Unprotected Sex within an Affair so Alluring?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Does Alcohol Addiction Affect Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation?
Video icon Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Advice for Handling Addiction along with Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was?
Video icon Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate?
Video icon Q&A Can You Further Explain Compartmentalization?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide?
Video icon Q&A Did My Husband Love Me While He Was Being Unfaithful to Me?
Video icon Q&A Are There Differences in Love of Spouse in Marriage and Love of the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions?
Video icon Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More?
Video icon Q&A Will My Husband Ever Be Able to Self-Regulate His Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Why Did My Spouse Leave His Wedding Band on While He Was with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is?
Video icon Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is?
Video icon Q&A Why Would My Mate Embellish the Story of Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was?
Video icon Q&A What Is an Exit Affair?
Video icon Q&A Who's Responsible?
Video icon Expert Q&A Preview: Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Was He in Love with His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Is a Validation Addiction?
Video icon Q&A If My Unfaithful Mate Was Mentally ill, Do I Have the Right to Be Angry with Him?
Video icon Q&A Can the Unfaithful Really Not Have an Answer to the 'Why'?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common for Affairs to Start in the Midst of Traumatic Events?
Video icon Q&A Are Affairs the Direct Result of Marital Deficits?
Video icon Q&A How Could He Be so Loving and Romantic Toward the AP?
Video icon Q&A Are There Affairs That Aren't Limerent Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking?
Video icon Q&A Does He Really Want Me?
Video icon Q&A Is He an Addict?
Video icon Q&A Why Did My Husband Treat Me Like His Greatest Enemy during His Secret Affair?