All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 5060 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What is the Red Light, Yellow Light, and Green Light Exercise? 1/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Handle Her Flooding? 1/26/2016 Q&A Could you Describe What Entails a Polygraph? 1/21/2016 Q&A How Can We Get Out of This Limbo? 1/21/2016 Q&A How Can I Ensure My Safety? 1/21/2016 Q&A Is There Another Solution Besides God for My Husband? 1/21/2016 Q&A Is Harboring Hope Right for Me? 1/21/2016 Q&A Is Replacing Physical Items Helpful for Managing Triggers? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Will Relapse Prevention Look Like For Us? 1/12/2016 Q&A Will Another Course Help Us Reconnect? 1/12/2016 Q&A Which Feelings Should I Listen to? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts On Renewing of Vows? 1/12/2016 Q&A What's it Going to Take for Him to Get it? 1/12/2016 Q&A Do You Recommend a Regular Polygraph in Recovery? 1/12/2016 Q&A Will the AP Lie? 1/12/2016 Q&A Will He Be Able to Stop the Memories? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Can We Do About the Triggers? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Are Some Signs of Safety? 1/05/2016 Q&A Why Isn't Rick Forthcoming About His Relapse? 1/05/2016 Q&A How Can We Communicate in Love? 1/05/2016 Q&A What is the Mind's Reason for Intrusive Thoughts? 1/05/2016 Q&A Can You Give Us Some Hope? 1/05/2016 Q&A He Betrayed ME! Why Am I Pursuing HIM?! 1/05/2016 Q&A Are We Missing Something? 1/05/2016 Q&A He Failed the Polygraph. Now What? 1/05/2016 Q&A Is Her Lack of Emotion Normal? 1/05/2016 Q&A Do I Have to Know About it? 1/05/2016 Q&A Should I Disclose My Affair to My Father? 1/05/2016 Q&A Can You Elaborate on Sex Addicts and Their Emotional Immaturity? 12/23/2015 Q&A Can You Have Reconciliation Without Forgiveness? 12/23/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015 Q&A How Can We Get Past the Triggers At Home? 12/23/2015 Q&A Why Do I Still Not Desire Him? 12/23/2015 Q&A Is There Hope for Someone With a Lifelong Trail of Adultery? 12/23/2015 Q&A Which Affair Types Are Most Devastating? 12/23/2015 Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015 Q&A Should I Stop Waiting for Him to Own This? 12/23/2015 Q&A What Role Should Fantasies Play in the Marriage Bed? 12/22/2015 Q&A Should We Show Affection In Front of Our Children? 12/22/2015 Q&A How Much Work is Necessary? 12/22/2015 Q&A Should I Ask My Husband to Email His Affair Partner to Defend Me? 12/22/2015 Q&A How Can I Help Her With Intimacy? 12/22/2015 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing? 12/22/2015 Q&A Should We Spend the Holidays Together? 12/22/2015 Q&A Can There be Safety Without Recovery Work? 12/22/2015 Q&A What Does Grieving Look Like? 12/15/2015 Q&A Do I Have a Right to Contact the AP's Spouse? 12/15/2015 Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade? 12/15/2015 Q&A Can You Help Me With EMSO - Week 9? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Can We Handle This Particular Work Challenge? 12/15/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…777879808182838485…next ›last »