All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How to Survive Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 5004 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Re-establish a Sexual Relationship? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Long Does It Take the Unfaithful to Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do I Do When There Are No Actions behind the Words? 1/22/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Should I Do?” 1/22/2018 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When You Spouse Refuses Help and Wants Divorce? 1/22/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018 Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Can I Assure My Wife That She's the One I Want? 1/10/2018 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018 Q&A Can You Address Different Personalities in Marriage? 1/10/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Affair Partner Won't Let Go? 1/10/2018 Q&A Do I Force Him to Get Paternity Test? 1/10/2018 Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Hang on to My Resolve? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate My Needs in the Marriage? 1/08/2018 Q&A My Mate's Family Also Betrayed Me, How Do We Reconcile? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Show My Mate Grace? 1/08/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Affair Partner That I Don't Love Her? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Forgive Myself for Transmitting My Pain? 1/08/2018 Q&A What Are Signs That Someone Might Relapse? 1/08/2018 Q&A Is It Unreasonable to Expect My Mate to Be Honest about Their Needs? 1/08/2018 Q&A What Can Affair Recovery Do Tell Help a Compulsive Liar? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Do Actions Affect Identity? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Is God Present in Our Struggles? 1/08/2018 Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Surrender Control? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can I Know If the Changes Are Genuine? 12/20/2017 Q&A What Should My New Dream Look Like? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can He Not Get It? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do You End an Affair with an Unstable Affair Partner? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Do I Feel Stuck? 12/20/2017 Q&A Does He Really Want Me? 12/20/2017 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Is It Taking My Unfaithful Husband Longer to Get over His Affair Than Me? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can I Get past These Incredibly Painful Feelings? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is He an Addict? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Did My Husband Treat Me Like His Greatest Enemy during His Secret Affair? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Move On? 12/20/2017 Q&A Do You Think Cheaters Are Just Morally Bankrupt? 12/20/2017 Q&A Will This Pain Ever Let up over Time or Will Seeing This Constantly Keep Us All from Healing? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Accept That My Mate Is Frustrated at Non-Affair Things? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can We Find an Appropriate Couples Counselor? 12/20/2017 Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Aren't There More People Doing Blogs? 12/20/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…525354555657585960…next ›last »